Forget the roses. Say 鈥業 love you鈥� with a book of love poems.
Ah, love. It鈥檚 the inspiration for countless poems and those thoughtful, last-minute Valentine鈥檚 Day gifts.听I say that as a poet and poetry reviewer who often is asked on Feb. 12 or 13 to recommend the perfect poem or collection for someone鈥檚 beloved.
Before I answer, I always inquire about the recipient鈥檚 tastes and preferences. If the response is 鈥淚鈥檓 not really sure,鈥� I suggest the wide selection of classic and contemporary love poems found on the and websites. Both offer some of the best poems from the 20th and 21st centuries alongside the work of literary icons: 鈥淪hall I compare thee to a summer鈥檚 day?鈥� (, 1564-1616) and 鈥淚f ever two were one, then surely we鈥� (, 1612-72). This intermingling subtly illustrates that poetry conveys universal emotions and insights, presented through the lens of a particular time and culture. The challenge 鈥� and the fun 鈥� is to find poems that resonate for you.
鈥淲hat about a book? I need something I can wrap.鈥�
Why We Wrote This
Valentine鈥檚 Day often arrives with expectations: a bouquet of flowers, a nice dinner out. But to truly tell your sweetheart how you feel, look to love poems. Our poetry reviewer shares a bounty of romantic verse to read aloud with your special someone.
Anthologies are a great option, depending upon what your sweetie likes.
听(Everyman鈥檚 Library Pocket Poet Series, 1993)听takes readers on a tour around the world, from ancient Chinese and Greek writings to works by Russian, Italian, British, and American poets in more recent eras. The range of styles and movements underscores how the genre constantly evolves as writers strive to capture the essence of human experience.
(Harmony, 2003), edited by Roger Housden, is intended to challenge readers to live more purposefully and passionately. As a line from Mary Oliver in the introduction asks, 鈥淟isten, are you breathing just a little, and calling it a life?鈥�
At this point in the conversation, I often hear, 鈥淥K, I鈥檒l take a look, but will those books teach me how to read poetry?鈥�
Not in a didactic way. Instead, they and other collections give readers the chance to spend time with good poems, getting to know them slowly. The process is a bit like dating: If you鈥檙e attentive and open-minded, you鈥檒l eventually find the right one.
鈥淲hat about something for my mom or my daughter?鈥�
(Grand Central Publishing, 2016), edited by Caroline Kennedy, examines the challenges and joys women experience as they move through various phases and milestones. Kennedy begins each section with reflections on the importance of poetry in her own life. Even the title, a line from a Lord Byron poem, hints at the quiet strength and delight found in these pages.
My suggestions are just a starting point. Whether people prefer free verse or fixed forms with rhyme, they need to see 鈥� and feel 鈥� how poetry speaks in new ways to each generation, even on social media.
鈥淲hat if I want a book by just one writer? Who鈥檚 really good?鈥�
Chilean poet Pablo Neruda, who was awarded the 1971 Nobel Prize in literature, and the 13th-century Persian mystic Rumi are wonderful additions to any bookshelf.
Neruda鈥檚 sensual love poems were an immediate success when they were published in Spanish in 1924. They remain popular with American readers in part because of their exquisite descriptions, as demonstrated in these lines from 鈥淭he Queen,鈥� reprinted in 听(New Directions, 2008), in which the speaker says that while others may not see her crown, 鈥渨hen you appear / all the rivers sound / in my body, bells / shake the sky / and a hymn fills the world.鈥�
, translated by Nader Khalili (Wellfleet Press, 2015), brims with compassion and a deep awareness of the divine. In 鈥淎ll the Precious Words,鈥� Rumi notes that all the words 鈥測ou and I have exchanged / have found their way / into the heart of the universe / one day they鈥檒l pour on us / like whispering rain.鈥�
Understanding poetic schools of thought is far less important than experiencing how the combination of concise language, vibrant imagery, and artful music can make you feel more alive and present.
Whether you choose a classic or a work by someone more current 鈥� activist and educator , Instagram poet , or , author of 鈥溾�� (Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2015) 鈥� make sure you read the work aloud slowly, and together. That鈥檚 when poetry will speak the loudest and most directly.
