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It鈥檚 relationships that make the world go round

Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskyy is greeted by European leaders in Brussels on Feb. 9, during his second international trip since Russia's invasion of Ukraine.

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March 9, 2023

Relationships are precious things.

Those are words you would probably expect to read on a Valentine鈥檚 Day card, rather than at the top of a column about international affairs.

But this week鈥檚 Patterns is the 200th since it took an initial look, in February 2018, at a world that seemed increasingly disconnected and divided.

Why We Wrote This

What patterns in international affairs have revealed themselves since we published the first Patterns five years and 200 columns ago? One predominates: relationships are precious.

And while deep divisions persist, the single most powerful narrative that emerges from a rereading of the first 199 could indeed grace a Hallmark card.

It is that relationships matter. Or, to rephrase the English poet John Donne, no man, no woman, no citizen, no government, no country, is an island 鈥渆ntire of itself鈥 鈥撀燼 turnaround in world politics almost unthinkable five years ago.

Lesotho makes Trump鈥檚 polo shirts. He could destroy their garment industry.

Back in 2018, the prevailing winds were gusting in the opposite direction.

A muscular, even truculent, brand of nationalism was on the rise. It was embodied, as that first Patterns column observed, by then U.S. President Donald Trump鈥檚 rallying cry of 鈥淎merica First,鈥 and echoed in Britain鈥檚 withdrawal from its decades-long membership of the European Union.

It ranged far more widely, however 鈥 across Vladimir Putin鈥檚 Russia, Xi Jinping鈥檚 China, Narendra Modi鈥檚 India, and Jair Bolsonaro鈥檚 Brazil.

Yet two jolting stress tests 鈥 reality tests 鈥 have since made themselves felt.

The first was the COVID-19 pandemic, the greatest such challenge since the worldwide flu outbreak more than a century ago. Then came Mr. Putin鈥檚 invasion of Ukraine, provoking the deadliest conflict in Europe since World War II.

Other nations had a pandemic reckoning. Why hasn鈥檛 the US?

German Defense Minister Boris Pistorius visits German troops during NATO military exercises in Pabrade, Lithuania, on March 7.
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The pandemic was nature鈥檚 stark reminder of the importance of relationships 鈥 both between countries and within them.

As governments fumbled for the most effective response, none emerged unscathed. But those that fared best were those that relied on common bonds.

In Europe, for instance, governments鈥 initial impulse to turn inward and let neighboring states fend for themselves soon gave way to coordination and cooperation. And those states most effective in dealing with the pandemic 鈥 like New Zealand 鈥 were those whose leaders managed to galvanize a spirit of fellow-feeling among citizens and, critically, between citizens and their governments.

That rule ultimately held even for the most powerful of autocracies. China鈥檚 response, all but shutting its borders and imposing lockdowns on hundreds of millions of people, finally buckled before the spread of a new variant 鈥 and extraordinary grassroots pushback.

The war in Ukraine has also reinforced the importance of relationships.

On the eve of the invasion, with some 150,000 Russian troops massed on Ukraine鈥檚 border, it seemed quite possible that narrow national interests would preclude any common response from the West.

Indeed, a Patterns column before Mr. Putin attacked suggested he was striking at a politically opportune moment.

Yes, U.S. President Joe Biden had been rebuilding the transatlantic NATO alliance, which Mr. Trump had denigrated and dismissed.聽But the Europeans remained skeptical about its staying power, especially after having been blindsided by America鈥檚 rushed and chaotic withdrawal from Afghanistan. Two key European allies, Germany and France, also seemed reluctant to risk the prospect of a fundamental rupture in their ties with Moscow.

But Mr. Putin turned out to have miscalculated. 聽

President Joe Biden walks with Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskyy outside St. Michael's Golden-Domed Cathedral during an unannounced visit in Kyiv, Ukraine, on Feb. 20.
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It鈥檚 not just that he failed to reckon on the remarkable leadership of Ukraine鈥檚 President Volodymyr Zelenskyy and the courage of its people.

He also failed to appreciate the power of relationships, revealed in both the sympathy and solidarity felt by millions of people in Europe, the U.S., and beyond toward the Ukrainians, and in NATO鈥檚 reinvigorated strength. The alliance pulled back together, emerging reinforced by the decision by two of Russia鈥檚 neighbors, Finland and Sweden, to join.

A key question remains open, though: How will renewed recognition of the importance of such relationships impact a still-turbulent world?

The Ukraine war rages on. The world鈥檚 two most powerful nations, the U.S. and China, are at loggerheads. The political climate in America and in a number of other democracies remains bitterly partisan.

At least for now, the renewed strength of NATO seems secure. Indeed, there has been a ripple effect in Asia, where American allies have been reinforcing their relationships amid concern that China could take a leaf from Mr. Putin鈥檚 book and seek to invade Taiwan.

But there鈥檚 a further lesson from the old, post-World War II architecture of world politics: relationships matter not just with friends, but with foes as well. That was a big reason that the Cold War years, in good times and bad, did ensure an underlying stability that helped head off major conflict.

This is something that Washington and Beijing have not yet got right.

And there is another relationship challenge for major democracies closer to home: rebuilding a sense of partnership and trust between citizens and government, and among citizens across increasingly barbed partisan lines.

The encouraging news for America is that democracies are far better positioned to meet that test than ostensibly strong, yet inherently vulnerable, regimes like Iran鈥檚 or Russia鈥檚.

But how?

It鈥檚 not likely to be an easy process, nor a quick one, and it, too, risks sounding like a greeting card nostrum. But it, too, has real-life implications.

The freedom 鈥 vital for any healthy democracy 鈥 for citizens to speak their minds is only half the equation.

Equally important is the ability to listen.