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Their past was a nightmare. For many refugees, the Dream Center offers hope.

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Omar Bah and Teddi Jallow, both Gambian refugees, founded the Refugee Dream Center in 2015 to support people escaping violence and persecution.

Teddi Jallow鈥檚 clients often call her 鈥渕ama,鈥 or 鈥淢ama Dream.鈥 Or sometimes just 鈥渟ister.鈥

In many ways, she and her husband, Omar Bah, are like family to the 300 refugees they serve at the Refugee Dream Center in Providence, Rhode Island.聽

Founded in 2015, the center provides case management services to people who have fled violence or persecution, and runs programs that focus on health, youth mentoring, and adult education. But the couple also want to make sure Rhode Island refugees have a place to turn when they run into trouble.聽

Why We Wrote This

After the standard 90 days of federal assistance ends, many refugees in the U.S. are still finding their footing. Founded by refugees, the Dream Center offers support and compassion 鈥 and for many, a sense of family.

Maybe they need a ride to the hospital, they can鈥檛 pay their electric bill, or their child is being bullied at school. The Dream Center鈥檚 approach mixes compassion with pragmatism: It will give them a ride, provide some cash, set up a meeting with the guidance counselor.聽

鈥淲e try to fix the problem,鈥 says Ms. Jallow. 鈥淲e always talk about problems, but how do we fix it?鈥

Mr. Bah escaped Gambia in 2007, and Ms. Jallow joined him in Providence three years later. As refugees themselves, Mr. Bah and Ms. Jallow understand how long it takes to rebuild a life from scratch.

In the United States, the government promises 90 days of assistance after arrival. Refugees can seek further aid from state programs, but that varies depending on the person鈥檚 location and individual circumstances. The process is geared toward rapid self-sufficiency.

Mr. Bah and Ms. Jallow aim to fill the gaps, offering not only immediate problem-solving but also long-term support so refugees can thrive in the U.S., even as fewer and fewer are being accepted. It鈥檚 like having an aunt or uncle in your new neighborhood 鈥 an anchor.

鈥淭he government gets refugees set up, the refugee resettlement agency is responsible for helping them navigate all of these transitions, and then refugees are enrolled in some sort of public benefits system, but that鈥檚 all time sensitive,鈥 says Danielle Grigsby, interim director of Refugee Council USA, a national coalition of refugee advocates. 鈥淎nd while that ticks boxes 鈥 like rent, housing, job, school 鈥 we all know that life is so much more than that.鈥

What it means to be a refugee

In Gambia, Mr. Bah and Ms. Jallow only had two months together as newlyweds before Mr. Bah went on the run. As a political journalist, he was often at odds with the country鈥檚 authoritarian regime. He says he was nearly beaten to death by security forces on a reporting trip and lost his popular newspaper column during an editor turnover. When the government discovered he鈥檇 continued publishing stories online under a pseudonym, it issued a warrant for his arrest.聽

鈥淚 had a dictator who had a price over my head, literally announced my name and picture over the TV,鈥 he says. Mr. Bah barely made it to Ghana alive.聽

After a year in limbo, he was placed in Providence. Mr. Bah was the only refugee from Gambia in the city when he arrived, and he was afraid to interact with Gambian Americans due to his wanted status.聽

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Isabel Kayembe (from left), Teddi Jallow, and Astou Lo meet with staff at Nathan Bishop Middle School on February 21, 2020, in Providence, Rhode Island. With the help of the Refugee Dream Center, Ms. Lo's daughter is able to transfer schools.

But his loneliness began to subside as he met refugees from other countries. His English and computer skills meant he could help file paperwork and advocate for better housing.

鈥淭hat鈥檚 how I built my community,鈥 says Mr. Bah. 鈥淭hat became my life.鈥

Since he arrived, more than 2,000 refugees have been placed in Rhode Island, including Ms. Jallow, who arrived in 2010. Mr. Bah noticed that even one or two years after their arrival, refugees were failing to integrate 鈥 they were still struggling with English, overwhelmed by bills, feeling isolated.

That鈥檚 why the couple founded the Dream Center, a nonprofit that could serve the needs of Rhode Island鈥檚 refugees after the government aid period ended. Mr. Bah deals with most of the outward-facing business, including fundraising, meeting with officials, and educating the public about refugees. Ms. Jallow focuses on the clients.聽

She works closely with Isabel Kayembe, the center鈥檚 case manager and a refugee from Angola, to make sure clients get the assistance they need. Together, they speak nine languages. Even amid the current health crisis, the Dream Center has continued looking out for its clients, with staff members making daily rounds to deliver food and household supplies and provide translation services.

Although temporarily closed to slow the spread of the coronavirus, their shared office space is typically packed. Staff and visitors step around boxes of donated coats, while volunteers conduct English as a second language classes in an adjacent room. As Mr. Bah returns from a meeting, Ms. Jallow and Ms. Kayembe are piling into a minivan, off to pick up Astou Lo, who came to the U.S. 10 years ago after fleeing ethnic violence in Mauritania.

Recently, Ms. Lo noticed her daughter鈥檚 grades were slipping, and she relied on the Dream Center to obtain an individualized education program and eventually transfer her daughter to a better school. During a meeting to finalize the switch, Ms. Jallow came prepared with questions and translated while Ms. Kayembe took notes. Ms. Lo left the building with the counselor鈥檚 contact information, a Monday morning game plan, and a sense of relief. She鈥檚 known Ms. Jallow and Mr. Bah since she arrived in the U.S., but she was especially happy to have them in her corner that day.

鈥淚鈥檓 so grateful I have someone I trust,鈥 she says with the help of a Dream Center interpreter. 鈥淚 could not do this alone.鈥

Family reunions on hold

Laurent Tumba has been coming to the Dream Center for more than two years after escaping conflict in Congo. He鈥檚 worked with several resettlement agencies, but nothing beats Ms. Jallow and Mr. Bah for immediate assistance. 鈥淸Other groups] help, but they help on their own time,鈥 he says through an interpreter. 鈥淚t鈥檚 not like here.鈥澛

But even the Dream Center has its limits.

Many refugees, including Mr. Tumba, are waiting for relatives to join them in the U.S. But since the Trump administration halved refugee admissions in 2019, reunification has slowed to a crawl.

鈥淭hey are not coming. There鈥檚 nothing we can tell them,鈥 says Ms. Jallow.聽

Combined with travel bans targeting African countries that clients may pass through on their way to the U.S., Ms. Jallow says the government has effectively stopped the flow of refugees into the U.S. In the meantime, the Dream Center focuses on improving the lives of its clients. Ms. Jallow hopes that one day, they stop needing the center.

鈥淚 want to see them move forward,鈥 she says, 鈥済et jobs, know English, be able to do things for themselves.鈥

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