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Mother's Day in 2020: A mix of love and imagination

As pandemic lockdowns persist, sons and daughters worldwide found creative ways to make moms feel special this year.

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(Daniel A. Varela/Miami Herald via AP)
In this Saturday, May 9, 2020 photo, a daughter holds a sign for her mom as she visits during a Mother's Day drive-by caravan at The Palace Renaissance & Royale's Kendall Campus in Miami, Fla.

Treats made and delivered by neighbors. Fresh garden plantings dug from a safe six feet away. Trips around the world set up room-to-room at home.

Mother's Day this year is a mix of love and extra imagination as families do without their usual brunches and huggy meet-ups.

As the pandemic persists in keeping families indoors or a safe social distance apart, online searches have increased for creative ways to still make moms feel special.

Absent help from schools and babysitters, uninitiated dads are on homemade craft duty with the kids. Other loved ones are navigating around no-visitor rules at hospitals and senior-living facilities.

Some medical facilities are pitching in by collecting voice and video recordings from locked-out relatives when patients are unable to manage the technology on their own.

In suburban St. Louis, Steve Turner and his family hope to FaceTime with his 96-year-old mother, Beverly, but they plan something more, too. Her birthday coincides with Mother's Day this year.

鈥淲e're going to create a big Mother's Day-birthday banner signed by the kids and grandkids who live here,鈥 Mr. Turner said. 鈥淪he loves butterflies and we'll draw some on. We're working with the home to find a place where we can stand outside a window so she can see us.鈥

Anna Francese Gass in New Canaan, Connecticut, is hunkered down with her husband and three children and will enjoy her usual Mother's Day breakfast in bed of rubbery eggs, slightly burnt toast, and VERY milky coffee. But the day won't include her own mom, who lives nearby.

鈥淚 ordered a bunch of daffodil and tulip bulbs online, and me and the kids are planning to plant them in her flowerbed. She can supervise from the window. I just know it will put a huge smile on her face,鈥 Ms. Francese Gass said.

In Alameda, California, 23-year-old Zaria Zinn is sheltering at home with her parents and younger sister. Knowing how much their mother loves and misses traveling, they're turning their house and neighborhood into a trip around the world with help from decorations and virtual tours online.

鈥淲e made a DIY passport for her and we're creating stamps for each location,鈥 she said.

Their itinerary: Machu Picchu, Paris, and Iceland, with some DIY spa time and a Hollywood-style movie night.

Making the most of Mother's Day in isolation is top of mind for Google search users. The company said the term 鈥淢other's Day gifts during quarantine鈥 recently spiked by 600% in the U.S. Among Pinterest's 335 million users, searches for 鈥淢other's Day at home鈥 have jumped by 2,971%, the company said.

At a senior center in Smyrna, Georgia, 73-year-old Mary Washington spoke to her daughter Courtney Crosby and grandchild Sydney Crosby through a window.

In Germany, which was also celebrating mothers, officials made an exception to allow children who live outside the country to enter for a Mother鈥檚 Day visit. Germany's restrictions currently forbid entry except for 鈥渃ompelling reasons,鈥 such as work.

In Grafton, West Virginia, where the tradition of Mother鈥檚 Day began 112 years ago, the brick building now known as the International Mother鈥檚 Day Shrine held its first online-only audience. Anna Jarvis first held a memorial service for her mother and all mothers on the second Sunday of May in 1908.

鈥淪heltered safely at home with the family together would be viewed by Anna Jarvis as exactly the way she wanted Mother鈥檚 Day to be observed,鈥 said Marvin Gelhausen, chairman of the shrine's board of trustees, in an address on YouTube.

Matilda Cuomo, the mother of New York Gov. Andrew Cuomo, called into her son鈥檚 daily briefing so he and his three daughters could wish her a happy Mother鈥檚 Day.

鈥淚 am so blessed as many mothers today are,鈥 she said.

In Rochester, New York, Melissa Mueller-Douglas and her 7-year-old daughter, Nurah, had planned to get together with mom and daughter friends at a hotel for a Mother's Day sleepover. When it was canceled because of the pandemic, they got busy on Pinterest searching for ideas to bring the party home, just the two of them.

They have eye masks with rhinestones to decorate, thread for mother-daughter bracelets, instant film for a photo shoot, and a chocolate fountain purchased at Walmart. Dad and Nurah's 3-year-old brother will paint together downstairs after a mom-son bike ride earlier in the day.

鈥淲e've repurposed a shimmery tablecloth and made giant flowers out of tissue paper for a photo shoot backdrop. We'll be creating a secret handshake and writing in top secret journals to each other,鈥 Ms. Mueller-Douglas said. 鈥淲e're calling it The Best Day Ever Slumber Party.鈥

Kayla Hockman, 26, in Los Angeles has been worried about her 77-year-old grandmother in Fontana, California, about 50 miles away. Usually, she and her sister treat her and their mom to brunch or an adventure out.

鈥淢y grandma's been quite depressed lately since she hasn't left her house in two months, and she's slowly losing hope,鈥 Ms. Hockman said. 鈥淪he and my grandpa have a lot of problems with walking now. This whole thing of not being able to see anyone has been really taking a hard toll on them."

To cheer her up, they're planning a party on her lawn.

鈥淚t's going to be a surprise pop-up Mother's Day brunch with `momosas' and painting,鈥 Ms. Hockman said. 鈥淲e鈥檙e going to set it up for all of us to paint a sunflower, her absolute favorite. She'll paint on her porch and we'll be on the lawn, all 6 feet apart.鈥

Willie Greer in Memphis thought food, enlisting the help of a neighbor to make his mom's recipe for pecan pie and deliver it to her in Dallas to brighten her isolation Mother's Day. He said the neighbor was happy to do it after he sent her the recipe.

鈥淢y siblings and I will also create a `thank you' video for mom. Since we can鈥檛 all be together, each of us will record a short message and at the end we'll all sing `A Mother's Love' by Gena Hill," he said. 鈥淚鈥檓 pretty sure this is the part where my mom cries her eyes out.鈥

These days, virtual experiences are all we have, so Lisa Hill in Portland, Oregon, decided to embrace that notion for her 79-year-old mom in Stuart, Florida, after she met a cooking instructor while volunteering to prepare meals at a shelter.

Hill has been cooking alongside Lauren Chandler, who has taken her usual in-home cooking sessions online with a twist: She's throwing in a free 45-minute session for clients to donate.

鈥淚 feel so far away from her. I can't cook for her. I can't visit," Ms. Hill said. "She's nervous about everything going on right now and it will be a good social interaction.鈥

This story was reported by The Associated Press.聽

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