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Franz Kafka Google doodle: 130 years later, would Kafka still be mad at Dad?

How not to raise a child: Franz Kafka's letter to his father. 

7. Do not unduly restrict praise for your child's accomplishments

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The first page of Kafka's letter to his father.

"My valuation of myself was much more dependent on you than on anything else, such as some external success. That was strengthening for a moment, nothing more, but on the other side your weight always dragged me down much more strongly. Never shall I pass the first grade in grammar school.... no, I did not fail, and I went on and on succeeding. This did not produce any confidence, however; on the contrary, I was always convinced鈥攁nd I had positive proof of it in your forbidding expression鈥攖hat the more I achieved, the worse the final outcome would inevitably be."

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