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8 holiday tips for dealing with difficult relatives

You can鈥檛 change what your difficult relatives are going to do; you can only change yourself. But when you change, a relationship changes. Here are eight tips for doing that.

2. Think about how topics that seem innocuous to you might upset someone else

You may think you鈥檙e showing a polite interest, but some questions will rub a person the wrong way: 鈥淪o do you have a girlfriend yet?鈥 鈥淲hen are you two going to get married/start a family?鈥 鈥淒idn鈥檛 you give up smoking?鈥 鈥淐an you afford that?鈥 鈥淲hen are you going to get a real job?鈥 Show an interest with more open-ended questions, like 鈥淲hat are you up to these days?鈥 or 鈥淲hat鈥檚 keeping you busy?鈥 

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