If you鈥檙e the one who wants everything to be perfect, try to ease up on yourself and everyone else, so you can enjoy the day, whatever happens. Even if the day isn鈥檛 exactly the way you hoped it would be, try to enjoy what it is. My mother once told me, 鈥淭he things that go wrong often make the best memories,鈥 and it鈥檚 really true. And too much fussing to make an experience 鈥減erfect鈥 can sometime ruin it altogether.