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Our first story is not of the news today, but it is very much of this moment in history. #MeToo is challenging views of power that objectify and exploit women and the vulnerable. For many faith communities, it points to a need to look inward.聽

Our next story hits on a similar theme: small efforts at awakening institutional change. In this case, a group asked a probing question. When the tech community looks at women and minorities, does it see opportunity or a quota?聽

Call it the environmentalism paradox. As nations become wealthier, their negative impact on the environment increases, yet so does their capacity and desire to help. Ahead of Earth Day, it's a reminder that the health of the planet depends largely on how powerful we can make the second half of that equation. 聽聽

In Florida, beaches are a treasure, and that is what has made them such a flashpoint in a growing battle over what money can buy.聽

Our last story today is a video about a South African woman who staff photographer Melanie Stetson Freeman calls 鈥渢he most compassionate and loving mother I鈥檝e met in all my years I鈥檝e worked.鈥� The Monitor has followed Olga Thimbela since 2007, when she took in six children from relatives who died of AIDS. On Monday, we鈥檒l share the story of her daughter, who in many ways symbolizes the promise of the new South Africa, but also the pitfalls that remain. Here we trace our decade-long relationship with Olga 鈥� the challenges of moving beyond the legacy of AIDS, apartheid, and poverty, and the yearning of a mother鈥檚 love.

Sorry to say but in recent days there has been an abundance of apologies from public figures. Mark Zuckerberg, Laura Ingraham, Tony Robbins, Theresa May, Jimmy Kimmel 鈥� all have issued some form of regret over words spoken, actions taken, or past neglect. Even the pope apologized for misjudging the cover up of sexual abuse of many minors in Chile.

On Thursday, Philadelphia鈥檚 police commissioner apologized to two black men, Rashon Nelson and Donte Robinson, who were arrested while merely sitting in a Starbucks. He promised a new policy for police in responding to calls about alleged trespassing. The head of Starbucks, Kevin Johnson, apologized many times and plans to do so again in person. He has already ordered a day of race-bias training for all employees.

The task of parsing so many public apologies in such a short time can be humbling. Yet here are a few questions that often need to be asked:

Was the person鈥檚 apology sincere, unforced, and unequivocal about culpability, the wrong done, and the lesson learned? Was there genuine empathy with the victims? Did the apology come with restitution and a real change of behavior?

Such steps are necessary to heal a social wound and curb a repeat of the offense. Societies rely on trust, and real apologies help restore lost trust. They speak to a shared ideal about integrity.

Judging an apology from afar can be difficult. For the public, the task is easier when victims accept an apology, forgive the offender, and accept any reparations made. In the case of Mr. Zuckerberg and the mishandling of private data by Facebook, many users still await further privacy controls.

In a few cases, misreading an apology can have serious consequences.

On April 20, a terrorist group known as ETA, which had long sought independence for Spain鈥檚 Basque region, issued an apology for its four decades of bombings and shootings, in which more than 800 people were killed. The militant group disarmed last year. And it plans to dissolve itself in coming weeks.

But its apology was met with skepticism. While ETA said it was 鈥渢ruly sorry鈥� and took 鈥渄irect responsibility鈥� for causing 鈥渄amage that can never be put right,鈥� it seemed to imply that it had inherited a culture of violence from Spain鈥檚 civil war and that the current government should somehow share some responsibility for the suffering.

The group鈥檚 weak apology suggests it may be seeking an amnesty and the release of ETA prisoners. While the government welcomed the statement as an apology, it remains wary of cutting any deal until the victims and their families are satisfied about ETA鈥檚 motives and acceptance of any punishment.

Apologies do matter, but some more than others. Discerning their honesty and their effects can help save both individual lives and entire groups. The truth-telling can also give the lie to any notion that the original offense was right to begin with.