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How I fought the American addiction to 'more stuff'

I鈥檝e been observing Lent by getting rid of at least one household possession each day in the run up to Easter. I've found that simplifying your life is harder than it looks. Consumer culture enriches our standard of living, yet complicates it, too.

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A reveler celebrates Ash Monday by participating in a colorful 'flour war,' a traditional festivity marking the end of the carnival season and the start of the 40-day Lent period until the Orthodox Easter,in the port town of Galaxidi, Greece, March 18, 2013.

This spring, in the month before this weekend鈥檚 celebration of Easter, I鈥檝e been observing Lent by getting rid of at least one household possession each day.

Many 海角大神s mark the 40 days before Easter by giving up a luxury 鈥 or doing something extra 鈥 as a way to promote spiritual growth. My resolution to lighten my home of personal belongings is something that a lot of us try to do at this time of year, regardless of our religious beliefs. Spring cleaning brings thoughts of clearing out the old to make room for the new.

But the past weeks have reminded me that simplifying your life is harder than it looks. Consumer culture enriches our standard of living, yet complicates it, too.

Which is why, even in the aftermath of a global recession and its spirit of austerity, stockpiling stuff seems to be an American epidemic, with reality shows devoted to documenting people who can鈥檛 stop filling their homes to the ceiling. My house isn鈥檛 like that, but one of the easiest ways to avoid personal reform is to point at others you perceive to be more flawed than you are.

Of course, there鈥檚 a difference between consumer-driven clutter and the hoarding of HGTV that stems from deep psychological trauma. But truth be told, as 2014 began, I鈥檇 begun to feel as if moss were gradually growing over my life, the rooms around me narrowed by the presence of things that burdened rather than blessed my existence.

As Easter approached, a pledge formed. I promised myself that day by day, I鈥檇 say goodbye to at least one book no longer read, or shirt no longer worn, or tool no longer used. My inspiration came from the writer Elizabeth Bishop, who famously urged her readers in a poem called 鈥淥ne Art鈥 to 鈥渓ose something every day.鈥

Bishop鈥檚 poem is about a great many things, including the maturity that comes from deep loss. But on one level, it can be read as a hymn to traveling light. What Bishop seems to say is that losing what we own can be a form of liberation, allowing us to move more freely toward fresh possibilities. It鈥檚 an idea as old as the Scriptures, at the heart of Henry David Thoreau鈥檚 鈥淲alden,鈥 and as topical as the latest blog post about simple living.

But like any ideal, household economy is easier embraced than achieved, as I quickly discovered during my 40-Days-to-a-Thinner-House Plan.

Although neither my wife nor I would ever be mistaken for power shoppers, it seemed that every little thing removed from our home 鈥 an old paperback, a sweater, a television 鈥 would be replaced by the arrival of something else: a new book, another necktie, a deluxe scooper for walks with our terrier. In spite of my giveaway kick, the net sum of our worldly goods remained about the same.

E.B. White, who wasn鈥檛 an avid consumer, either, noted the phenomenon in 1957. Here鈥檚 White:

鈥淎 man could walk away for a thousand mornings carrying something with him to聽the corner and there would still be a home full of stuff. It is not possible to keep track of the normal tides of acquisition. A home is like a reservoir equipped with a check valve: the valve permits influx but prevents outflow. Acquisition goes on night and day 鈥 smoothly, subtly, imperceptibly. I have no sharp taste for acquiring things, but it is not necessary to desire things in order to acquire them. Goods and chattels seek a man out; they find him even though his guard is up.鈥

After confronting that reality in my own attempts to scale back, I remembered a dietitian鈥檚 advice when I began a weight-loss plan a couple of years ago. Write down everything you eat, she told me, and you鈥檒l get a clearer idea of how many calories you鈥檙e taking in each day.

I鈥檝e begun the same practice with my life as a consumer, jotting down what I give away or discard, as well as what I acquire. The hope is that by being more mindful of what I own, I鈥檒l be a wiser, more restrained steward of my home, my community, my planet.

But testing my experiment will take more time than Lent has allowed, so I鈥檒l try to extend my new habit past Easter Sunday. Who knows? Maybe I鈥檝e embarked on a lifelong regimen, a running ledger of loss and gain.

If you鈥檙e interested in what I鈥檓 doing, I invite you to do the same thing.

Danny聽Heitman, a columnist for The Advocate newspaper in Louisiana, is the author of 鈥淎 Summer of Birds: John James Audubon at Oakley House.鈥澛犅燞e's on Twitter, .

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