3. "Waiting for Birdy," by Catherine Newman. A weekly pleasure of my first pregnancy was reading Newman鈥檚 Babycenter.com column, 鈥淏ringing up Ben and Birdy.鈥 The book version focuses on the year that Newman鈥檚 second child was born, showcasing Newman鈥檚 gift for taking near-universal feelings and articulating them in a way that makes them feel heartbreakingly new. Odds are good that you鈥檒l recognize a piece of yourself in Newman鈥檚 life, as she pinpoints daily pains and daily joys on the way to adding a new child to the family.