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People often ask me what it鈥檚 like to be a female reporter in the Middle East, expressing concern about the rise of sexual harassment on Cairo鈥檚 street or extremist attitudes toward women.

Overall it鈥檚 fine, I tell them.

But this week I had an interesting experience in the Jerusalem neighborhood of Geula, where 850,000 people 鈥� 1 in 8 Israelis 鈥撀爂athered for the funeral procession of the ultra-Orthodox Rabbi Ovadia Yosef, widely seen as one of the greatest Torah scholars of his generation.

As I was interviewing a secular Jewish man off to the side of a street, a flurry of flyers rained down from a balcony above us.

鈥淎RE YOU AWARE?鈥� the flyer asked, one side printed in English and the other in Hebrew. 鈥淪eparating oneself and maintaining distance between men and women is the basis for tznius [modesty],鈥� it said, referencing a passage from Shulchan Aruch, a 16th聽century compilation that Rabbi Yosef and others have held up as the basis of all Jewish rabbinical law.

But few today would endorse the conclusions that followed this statement on the flyer:

鈥淭丑耻蝉:

• 聽聽聽聽聽 When men are in the street, a woman should go off to the side.
• 聽聽聽聽聽 A woman should not raise her voice whe[n] men are around.
• 聽聽聽聽聽 Women should not be strolling outdoors when men are frequenting the streets鈥�

Such societal demands, together with occasional incidents of 鈥渋mmodestly鈥� dressed women being scolded or stoned, are seen by many as the work of fringe groups who are becoming increasingly vocal as more ultra-Orthodox women expand the sphere of their lives 鈥� including jobs at hi-tech firms such as Intel.

It was ironic to me that I was showered with these pamphlets while standing quietly by a dumpster, apart from the crowds, rather than when my husband and I were fighting our way through a mass of humanity in Geula鈥檚 main street, which required not only brushing up against ultra-Orthodox men with top hats and swinging side curls but at times being tightly sandwiched between them.

But Jewish life seems full of such contradictions, at least to an outsider like me, and even religious Jews themselves can鈥檛 agree on exactly how to implement the value of modesty in the hustle and bustle of modern life. Here鈥檚 an excerpt of a debate I found on theyeshivaworld.com about the potential perils of mingling with seminary girls in Geula during the school year, an influx that is resented by more than a few yeshiva guys:

To solve such problems during the autumn holiday of Sukkot, when the narrow streets of nearby Mea Shearim are jam-packed, rabbis have decreed that men should walk on one side of the street and women on the other. But for the rest of the year, and the rest of Jerusalem, it seems this bumpy coexistence will continue 鈥撀燼nd so will the debate about how best to express the modesty required of religious Jews.