Frenemies: Why UK-French relationships survive their countries鈥 spats
Political relationships are under strain between Britain and France. But the large French communities in the U.K. are managing the tension.
Political relationships are under strain between Britain and France. But the large French communities in the U.K. are managing the tension.
Nathalie Reis may be a French citizen, but she has lived in the United Kingdom longer than she lived in France.
The London-based translator moved to the U.K. in 1991 after completing her studies in Paris and falling in love with both the English language and the British man who is now her husband and father to her British-born children. 鈥淚 never felt like a foreigner,鈥 she says. 鈥淚 have never wanted to be British and never felt the need to be British. I thought of myself as European.鈥
But that has changed since Brexit, and as Britain鈥檚 political relationship with France has deteriorated. Ms. Reis has recently applied for a British passport so that border officials will stop questioning her status. 鈥淚 have become a foreigner and more of an immigrant,鈥 she says.
Diplomatic spats over fishing rights and trade agreements continue to strain the relationship between Britain and France already fractured by the rhetoric around Brexit. In Britain, the official line is that the U.K. has left the European Union but not Europe. For those French people who have made Britain, and London in particular, their home, that distinction hasn鈥檛 rung entirely true, though, as the vitriol brewed by geopolitical tensions has shadowed their day-to-day experiences.
But still, they are finding that the political split isn鈥檛 reversing the human connections made between Britons and French nationals living in the U.K.
鈥淓ven if political relationships have deteriorated as a result of Brexit and the various conflicts since, it鈥檚 not new. There have always been conflicts between the two countries. They will manage to find a way,鈥 says Ms. Reis. 鈥淚 know French people who have gone back, but we are still here. I鈥檝e remained very French but also at the same time become very English.鈥
鈥淭he bad Europeans鈥
While there are no official numbers on French citizens in the U.K., an estimated 250,000 live in London alone according to the French Consulate.
In his 2017 election campaign, President Macron sought support from French voters during a visit to London, describing the British capital as 鈥渢he sixth French city,鈥 echoing聽comments made in 2014 by then-Mayor of London Boris Johnson to Bordeaux Mayor Alain Jupp茅 that he was mayor of 鈥渢he sixth biggest French city on earth.鈥 Those comments display 鈥済enuine recognition鈥 of the French community in Britain, says Paul Smith, who teaches French history and politics at the University of Nottingham.
Still, while the French are very numerous in Britain, and many of them do highly skilled jobs, they cannot be described as a community, argues Fran莽oise Boucek, research fellow and political scientist at Queen Mary University of London and the Centre for European Research, because of how quickly 鈥渢hey tend to assimilate and spread.鈥
鈥淭hey don鈥檛 get together for specific cultural reasons,鈥 she says. 鈥淭here鈥檚 not a sense of strong community [compared to] other people driven by war or conflict, forced to seek asylum.鈥澛
But the sense of 鈥渦s鈥 and 鈥渢hem鈥 may be growing, fueled by recent political events. There have been four major flashpoints between Britain and France over the past year, the most recent being post-Brexit fishing rights, following the seizure of a British trawler by French authorities in late October.
In September, Paris was outraged when Australia canceled a contract for French submarines in favor of a new deal with the United States and the U.K. London wants the French government to do more to dissuade migrants from trying to cross the English Channel, and British COVID-based travel restrictions on travelers from France have also caused tensions.
The fractured Anglo-French relationship has made headlines on both sides of the channel, with disputes over fish inspiring warlike comment in many of Britain鈥檚 newspapers.
Tensions over fishing rights have risen since the new post-Brexit trade deal was introduced in January. French fishers complain that the U.K. authorities have refused to grant permits to fish in newly British waters to boats that had fished them when they were European waters, as the Brexit deal requires. When the authorities on the island of Jersey denied permits to a number of French trawlers, the French authorities responded by seizing a British boat聽鈥 leading to the furious British press coverage.
The French are now a 鈥渟tand-in for Europe, the bad Europeans,鈥 says Dr. Smith. 鈥淭he British are not a punching bag [for the French] in the same way as the French are to the British. This goes back a long way.鈥
The cross-channel political spats have cast a shadow over the personal lives of many French citizens in Britain. Dr. Smith says his French-born wife feels nervous about speaking her native language in public because of 鈥淔rancophobia鈥 in Britain鈥檚 media.
He says a 鈥渄eliberate dragging of feet鈥 policy by the British government, making French fishers wait for permits to fish in U.K. waters, parallels the experience of French nationals applying for U.K. settled status, which will allow them to continue to live and work in Britain. 鈥淓veryone said it would be straightforward, but when you sat down, it was cumbersome and very slow,鈥 he complains.
A less friendly environment
V茅ronique Martin moved to the U.K in one of the first ever student exchange programs, trialed three years before the 1987 opening of the ERASMUS program, and like Ms. Reis, fell in love with a British man. She has stayed ever since, 鈥渃ompletely embracing British culture, loving its people, its music.鈥
But Britons weren鈥檛 so warm to her. In April 2018, she was asked by a pro-European Union group to speak at a rally in the constituency of Jacob Rees-Mogg, a leading Conservative proponent of Brexit, in front of many Brexit supporters. 鈥淚 was the only foreigner. I was scared before it started. I was heckled to such an extent I had to stop speaking,鈥 Ms. Martin says. 鈥淭he chairman of the rally reminded everyone to respect and listen to me.鈥
She told the crowd, 鈥測ou cannot go on hating the European workers who show so much courage and work really hard. It鈥檚 not their fault that your wages are undercut ... it鈥檚 not their decision, it鈥檚 the government that has the duty to make sure that bosses don鈥檛 undercut wages.鈥
She was able to win over the room in the end, Ms. Martin remembers. 鈥淭he woman who shouted at me the most came over to me and hugged me. We managed to turn it around through common humanity,鈥 she says.
But she cannot influence Franco-British relations by voting in Britain, though she would like to be able to do so; without British citizenship, she is excluded from participating in Westminster elections. Faced with 鈥渢axation without representation鈥 in the U.K., she is now planning to exercise her democratic rights again in her original homeland, where she will have the chance not only to vote in the upcoming French presidential election, but also to elect senators representing diaspora French citizens.
For all the ups and downs of being a French person in London today, many French citizens still love Britain聽鈥 not for its traditional Britishness, but for its multiculturalism.
鈥淲hen I left [home in Corsica] at 18, I just about knew what 鈥楯ewish鈥 meant,鈥 says Ms. Reis. 鈥淚 certainly didn鈥檛 know anything about Hindus or Sikhs, and very little about Muslims. What I love about London and the U.K is the mix of people and the way they can be from different religions and nationalities, and they can all mix.
鈥淏ringing up my kids with different religions around us, ... I wouldn鈥檛 swap it.鈥