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When Maureen Donnelly Morris came from nearby Leesburg to open her caf茅 in Lovettsville, neighbors rallied to her aid. Divisions ripping at their town and their country were set aside. America鈥檚 thunderous rage felt distant.

People she didn鈥檛 know sank posts for her parking signs. They brought lights for the cheery space outdoors, sharpened her bagel-slicing blades, and contributed plants, all to herald what would become the town鈥檚 civil common ground, Back Street Brews.

Forget, at least for one split second, red, blue, left, right, pro-Trump, anti-Trump. No one asked the woman from Leesburg: Which side are you on?

In this northern Virginia community of some 2,200 and others like it across the United States, neighborly ways and social ties persist, even in a country that seems to be at war with itself.

It鈥檚 a quieter force than all the yelling that is driving Americans apart. But the redemption of a nation and the future of its democracy may depend on it as the anniversary of the Jan. 6 insurrection at the U.S. Capitol approaches.

At least in the caf茅, says Moe, as she鈥檚 known, 鈥淵ou鈥檙e allowed to be a Republican and I don鈥檛 hate your guts. And you鈥檙e allowed to be a Democrat and hopefully you like me if I鈥檓 not.鈥�

That sentiment can no longer be taken for granted.

The U.S. is split in nearly every way. Shared sacrifice frequently seems to be an artifact. Americans are conspicuously not 鈥渁ll in this together,鈥� as the pandemic clich茅 claims. There鈥檚 seldom agreement on a common set of facts.

Politics is often like 鈥淢ortal Kombat, the video game,鈥� said Fiona Hill, who served three presidents as a Russia analyst. 鈥淵ou have to kind of slay your enemy,鈥� she said. 鈥淚t鈥檚 all basically framed as win-loss, victory-defeat, red versus blue, different factions and shades of blue fighting with themselves.鈥�

That鈥檚 the warring America.

There鈥檚 another, quieter, America, too. It asks about the family. It commiserates about the water bill and shoots the breeze. It鈥檚 a place where people who can be Facebook-nasty are face-to-face polite. Often it meets over coffee.

There鈥檚 no question that that the one-two punch of political distancing and social distancing has taken a toll.

President Donald Trump and the pandemic 鈥減retty much ripped a hole through the center of town,鈥� says Kris Consaul, a left-leaning activist and a former Lovettsville planning commissioner.

Into the breach came Back Street Brews, which set up in a building shared with a craft store in late 2017, then expanded in 2021 to fill the space. It became the town鈥檚 social hub.

Worship groups, a new-moms鈥� group, and other coffee klatches took root. Political discussions pop up, though rarely a heated argument.

When you sneeze in one cubbyhole, a stranger in another calls out, 鈥淏less you.鈥�

鈥淚t鈥檚 not really a pot-stirrer kind of place,鈥� said Moe, who turns a brilliant smile on everyone. 鈥淚 just don鈥檛 invite it. And if it comes up, you know, as long as it鈥檚 respectful, you can talk about whatever your beliefs are. I don鈥檛 care. If you are a staunch this or staunch that,聽I always say, keep that out of here.鈥�

John Ferguson, a retired foreign service officer, contributed flags and solar lights to Back Street on Lovettsville鈥檚 Pennsylvania Avenue, a lane barely wide enough for two cars. He was massively relieved when Mr. Trump vacated the white house on that other Pennsylvania Avenue, in Washington.

When it comes to defending the integrity of elections and guarding against more insurrections, he said, 鈥淚 don鈥檛 think you can pussyfoot around right now and certainly not for as long as Trump is on the scene.鈥�

But what of the Democrats?

鈥淭hey are treating Trump voters as if they鈥檙e stupid,鈥� Mr. Ferguson said. 鈥淭hat鈥檚 a huge mistake. It鈥檚 tremendously dangerous to alienate them.鈥�

Consultant Erik Necciai once worked as an aide to Democrats and Republicans on a Senate committee. He knows about bipartisanship. He鈥檚 also handy with a shovel.

So when another neighbor made wooden posts for Back Street鈥檚 parking, Mr. Necciai bought the concrete, dug the holes, and poured the footings.

鈥淚t鈥檚 very hard to have conversations nowadays in public spaces,鈥� he said. But he said caf茅 patrons recently fell into a discussion about U.S. relations with Russia and China. 鈥淓verybody鈥檚 opinion was greatly accepted,鈥� he said. 鈥淚 think we need a little bit more of that.鈥�

Jessica Sullivan, a tarot-card reader who also works at Back Street, agrees: 鈥淚 don鈥檛 need anybody to think the same things that I think in order for them to be a good person to me.鈥�

Still, Ms. Sullivan said, 鈥渨e do have a kind of dark undercurrent at times鈥� in the town.

A pro-Trump parade that came through town during the 2020 campaign diverted off the main street and stopped outside the home of Ms. Consaul and her wife, blaring horns.聽The parade was an overt sign of friction.

But behind the shield of social media, where you can spout an opinion and not have to look someone in the eye, the tone has been rabid.

In exchanges on the local Facebook group, a downtown home and family displaying multiple pro-Trump banners were denounced as a 鈥淭rump dump.鈥� From the other side, vile insults have been flung at gay people and anyone on the left.

In that forum, 鈥減eople feel more free to just say whatever they want and attack,鈥� said the woman whose yard displays the pro-Trump sentiments of her husband and herself. 鈥淚鈥檝e heard it all.鈥� She asked not to be identified because of local tensions.

Off Facebook, the Trump supporter doesn鈥檛 hesitate to visit Back Street, sizing up Moe as 鈥渄efinitely down the middle.鈥�

鈥淲e take our little one for milkshakes and things like that,鈥� she said.

So do the radical lefties. So do the just plain people.

They鈥檒l all shoot the breeze, ask about family, complain about the water bill or something.

Then, often, it鈥檚 back to the ramparts.

鈥淚t鈥檚 affecting people,鈥� Moe said of the perils of this era. 鈥淣ot me. Not in my bubble. We鈥檙e going to be fine, everyone! We鈥檙e going to land on our feet in my coffee bubble.鈥�

This story was reported by The Associated Press.