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What would Sigmund Freud say about Time magazine鈥檚 provocative breastfeeding cover picture showing a 20-something mom, hand on hip, as her large son suckles?

The famous psychiatrist posited in 1905 that weaning a child either too early or too late could lead to destructive oral fixations in adulthood. He also wrote about the Oedipus complex, where a son鈥檚 attraction to his own mother could lead him to want to kill his father.

While Freud鈥檚 ideas have been challenged and even debunked over the years, his theories about human development certainly underpin a widespread backlash to the picture, which illustrated a story about 鈥渁ttachment parenting鈥� where parents sleep with their children, coddle them before they cry, and, sometimes, extend breastfeeding into kindergarten.

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To be sure, even some breastfeeding advocates took issue with the picture, especially Grumet鈥檚 challenging, hands-on-hip pose and the boy鈥檚 quizzical peek at the camera as he鈥檚 attached to his mom.

But those who know Grumet say she鈥檚 a great parent whose children 鈥� she also has an adopted son from Ethiopia 鈥� are well-adjusted and not clingy.

鈥淛amie has a heart the size of Texas鈥�. But I think Time did Jamie a disservice by photographing her in an unnatural position in a calculatedly provocative pose in order to sell magazines,鈥� writes Shannon Bradley-Colleary, who knows Grumet through a Los Angeles moms鈥� group, on Huffington Post.

But in a country that in some ways remains Puritan, and where women recently have held breastfeeding rallies in retail stores to protest policies against public breastfeeding, the picture crossed a broader decency divide for some Americans.

"How do I erase this from my computer?" wrote JoshuaW from Charlotte, North Carolina, in a comment on Yahoo. "If the feds raid my place, I'm looking at five to ten."

鈥淚 think people are mainly reacting to the age of the child, and to see sort of a little boy attached to his mother鈥檚 breast is unsettling to people,鈥� says Joani Geltman, a child development expert in Cambridge, Mass. (Grumet鈥檚 son in the photo is nearly 4 years old.) 鈥淭o some people I think it seems almost pornographic.鈥�

Grumet acknowledged in an interview with Time that she has experienced backlash in her private life over her decision to breastfeed her large sons, saying people have threatened 鈥渢o call social services on me or that it鈥檚 child molestation.鈥�

But such incidents, she said, inspired her even more to speak out on the topic. "People have to realize this is biologically normal," she said. 鈥淭he more people see it, the more it'll become normal in our culture. That's what I'm hoping. I want people to see it."

Others likened the provocative photo to child endangerment, where a child is being exploited to aggrandize his mother. Time 鈥渕ay have unwittingly captured and been party to a grotesque form of psychological abuse,鈥� writes Dr. Keith Ablow, a psychiatrist, on Fox News.

Reflecting perhaps a more moderate assessment of the cover, retailers showed no signs of pulling the magazines from their shelves as it appeared on Friday. And Time鈥檚 editor, Richard Stengel, offered no apologies in an interview with the Indianapolis Star.

"Part of our job as journalists is to provoke discussion and provoke thought," Mr. Stengel told the Star. "It's becoming a story in and of itself. People are talking about it, and I think that's valuable, too."聽

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