A new life for mother whose daughter was killed in Charlottesville
Since Heather Heyer was killed by a white supremacist last year, her mother, Susan Bro, has been keeping her daughter鈥檚 memory alive in a campaign for racial justice. The first in a series of profiles of individuals whose lives were changed by the events in Charlottesville, Va.
Since Heather Heyer was killed by a white supremacist last year, her mother, Susan Bro, has been keeping her daughter鈥檚 memory alive in a campaign for racial justice. The first in a series of profiles of individuals whose lives were changed by the events in Charlottesville, Va.
It鈥檚 not easy running a national social justice campaign when you live in a trailer and have to worry about things like a leaky roof.
But听Susan Bro has embraced that challenge in the year since her daughter, Heather Heyer, was killed by a white supremacist in the 2017 Charlottesville protests.
Many, particularly on the left, have paid homage to Ms. Heyer and made her death a rallying cry for fighting racism and injustice. For Ms. Bro, carrying on her daughter鈥檚 legacy has been an uphill battle, whether it鈥檚 keeping the fundraising momentum going, or navigating criticism for being too outspoken.
Bro occupies an interesting space in a society in turmoil, as a working-class white ally of people of color. For the past year, she has been pouring her heart into a progressive cause, but also trying to keep the door open to those with differing perspectives 鈥撎齣ncluding her own relatives, some of whom are Trump supporters, some of whom have unfriended her on Facebook.
Her daughter鈥檚 death catapulted Bro from a life of canning green beans and contemplating retirement to the front lines of a national clash that last year鈥檚 Charlottesville protests exposed. That clash, revealing deep divisions around issues of race and equality, heritage and constitutional rights, could play out again in an Aug. 12 anniversary rally in Washington this weekend. And it听threatens to further roil the country as the United States heads toward a not-so-distant future in which whites will become the minority.听
While Bro still feels anger and periodic waves of grief, she has not only sought to take a public stand against hate 鈥 but has听also found the fortitude to listen to critics.
鈥淚f they have something negative to say, think about it, absorb it, see what might be true about it,鈥 says Bro in a phone interview. 鈥淒on鈥檛 automatically discount everybody who comes at you 鈥 they might be right.鈥
Bro has been criticized for her willingness to talk to people from a variety of backgrounds; local activists pressured her not to attend a Listen First Charlottesville event held this spring, aimed at bridging divides in the community. She went anyway.
Bro鈥檚 example inspired others, including University of Virginia student president Sarah Kenny. She was writing her thesis on the women of the alt-right, one of whom she witnessed Heyer鈥檚 mother interacting with during the Listen First weekend.
鈥淚 glimpsed [her] forgive this former neo-Nazi for the ideology that took her daughter鈥檚 life,鈥 says Ms. Kenny. 鈥淔ew experiences have overwhelmed me with awe and hope like this moment of radical reconciliation.鈥
A costly fight
Heyer, a high-school graduate who had worked her way up to becoming a paralegal in a Charlottesville firm, was making enough money at 32 to live on her own for the first time. She held a second job as a waitress, and was dressed in her black work clothes when she attended the听Aug. 12听rally to counterprotest the white supremacists and white nationalists who had come from across the country to protest the removal of a Robert E. Lee statue.
Heyer鈥檚 plan to head to work after attending the rally 鈥 and all her plans and hopes for fighting racism and oppression 鈥 came to an end when 20-year-old James Alex Fields Jr. of Ohio rammed his Dodge Charger into a crowd of counterprotesters, killing her. Or so it seemed.听
鈥淭hey tried to kill my child to shut her up,鈥 said Bro during a eulogy at her daughter鈥檚 funeral. 鈥淲ell, guess what? You just magnified her.鈥
Indeed, thanks in no small part to Bro, Heyer鈥檚 memory is living on in the fight against injustice.
A biracial schoolmate who remembered Heyer standing up for her on the school bus, started a GoFundMe campaign for the family that raised $225,000 in just a few days.听听
Bro didn鈥檛 know what to do with it all, says Alfred Wilson, the African-American lawyer who hired Heyer at Miller Law Group in Charlottesville. 鈥淲hat Susan said was, 鈥楬ey, I don鈥檛 want all this money, I shouldn鈥檛 be getting this money, what should we do with this?鈥 鈥
So together they established the Heather Heyer Foundation to help fund college educations for people passionate about positive social change.鈥 So far they've given out eight scholarships worth at least $1,000 (they partnered with the AIDS Healthcare Foundation on several of those, providing a total of $5,000 to the students). They are working on creating a $5 million endowment and hope to be able to supply a $40,000 a year scholarship to a student within the next two years.
鈥淪usan likes helping and likes doing things for other people, so I don鈥檛 think Heather would be surprised by her doing this,鈥 says Mr. Wilson, though he adds that the understated Heyer might be 鈥渕ortified鈥 to see her name out there so much. 鈥淚nstead of saying, 鈥楬ey, look at me,鈥 she was more about, 鈥業鈥檓 going to be there and I鈥檓 going to make a change.鈥 鈥
Encounter with a Confederate supporter
Many of the same issues that drove Heyer to counterprotest are still present in Charlottesville a year later, Bro says, citing a lack of affordable housing and police traffic stops that disproportionately target people of color. Though the city council in January elected a new black mayor, Nikuyah Walker, she says Ms. Walker has hit roadblocks in her efforts to bring about significant change.
Bro, for her part, has sought to educate herself more about the African-American experience.
She recently participated in a pilgrimage taking dirt from the lynching site of John Henry James 鈥 killed by a mob in Charlottesville in 1898 鈥 to the Equal Justice Initiative鈥檚 National Memorial for Peace and Justice in Montgomery, Ala. There, the jar of dirt joined hundreds of other jars from lynching sites across the US. The group, about 100 strong, rode a bus through the South, stopping at civil rights landmarks and museums along the way.
鈥淪he told me that until now she didn鈥檛 realize what white privilege was,鈥 says Wilson. 鈥淪he told me, 鈥楢lfred, here you are, educated, two degrees, running a law firm, but I walk into the same store that you walk in, and they are going to follow you and not me. That is white privilege.鈥 鈥
As Bro has learned more and taken on a more outspoken role, that鈥檚 led to some difficult conversations, including with family members, some of whom are Trump supporters. Bro declined to take a condolence call from the president after he decried the violence 鈥渙n many sides鈥 at last year鈥檚 rally, which many interpreted as assigning moral equivalence to white supremacists and the counterprotesters demonstrating against racism.
Some friends on Facebook have attacked her family members in online conversations, and she鈥檚 intervened.
鈥淚 try to give them a fair, balanced approach when I can,鈥 she says. 鈥淚 don鈥檛 always do a great job.鈥
She has also exercised restraint with strangers, including a man driving a truck with a Sons of Confederate Veterans license plate.
He was ahead of her in line at a McDonald鈥檚 drive-thru, and she saw him look in his rearview mirror and recognize her. She made a conscious decision not to hate him. When Bro got to the window, she discovered he had paid for her meal.
鈥淚 think he鈥檚 probably one of the guys who believes in his heart of hearts that it鈥檚 all about history and not hate,鈥 says Bro. 鈥淎nd some of those people are truly upset that Heather was killed.鈥
鈥楾hey just hate blindly鈥
Mr. Fields, the driver who killed Heyer, faces murder charges in a state trial slated to begin in November. And on听June 27, a federal jury indicted him on 30 counts 鈥 including 29 of hate crime acts.
鈥淭he events of Aug. 12, 2017, in Charlottesville are a grim reminder of why the FBI prioritizes its investigations of civil rights violations among the top of its criminal programs.听I hope today will also be a reminder to those who are motivated by hate and intent on committing violence; we are going to be there, just as we were in this case,鈥 said FBI Special Agent in Charge Adam S. Lee, who oversees the office in Charlottesville,听in a statement.
The following week, Fields 鈥 who says he is being treated for depression and other mental illnesses 鈥 pleaded not guilty. Bro, who attended his plea hearing, says 鈥渉e鈥檚 very young, very messed up.鈥
As for white supremacist and white nationalist leaders, Bro says she doesn鈥檛 think they actually believe much of the vitriol they espouse against Jews and people of color. 鈥淚 think it鈥檚 more about mind control of their followers.鈥
Jason Kessler, who organized last year鈥檚 rally, is planning an anniversary rally in Washington, DC. He had initially sought a permit to hold one in Charlottesville as well, but abruptly withdrew his request.
鈥淓ven if they don鈥檛 come, there might be the Confederate flaggers, or some of the other groups, that show up,鈥 Bro speculates. But she鈥檚 not concerned about their words having any real power.
鈥淭hey鈥檙e just mouthing phrases that don鈥檛 even make sense,鈥 she says. 鈥淭hey just hate blindly, they don鈥檛 even really know why.鈥
Coauthoring a children鈥檚 book series
Meanwhile, there are mundane problems for Bro to solve, like what to do about the leaky roof of the trailer where she and her husband live.
While being Heyer鈥檚 mom may have put Bro in the national spotlight, it hasn鈥檛 made her rich. She still lives in the same trailer park she moved into in 1995, about half an hour outside Charlottesville. She and her husband have been gradually renovating their trailer over the past eight years and were nearly done when recent heavy rains found their way through the roof.
Just the other day, she got yet another bill for Heyer鈥檚 medical expenses, which have totaled more than $200,000. 鈥淚 thought we were done with those,鈥 says Bro, who used many of the donations she received to pay those bills. But the funds are running out as the one-year anniversary approaches.
Bro, who has made it her full-time job to carry on Heyer鈥檚 legacy, spends much of her time traveling around the country giving talks. She is also coauthoring a children鈥檚 series about empathy and empowerment.
There are several fundraisers coming up soon, and Bro is working with a California-based designer who has ties to Charlottesville to design T-shirts commemorating Heyer. Bro says she is grateful for those who have come forward to help with fundraising. But she adds that it can feel 鈥渨eird鈥 sometimes.
It also strikes her as strange that so much has been made about one white woman鈥檚 death, without recognition that so many people of color die untimely deaths on a regular basis 鈥 or struggle with oppression and fear.
鈥淚f Heather鈥檚 death has served to at least wake up the white community that they need to get involved,鈥 says Bro, 鈥淚鈥檓 pushing that agenda.鈥
Staff writer Patrik Jonsson contributed reporting.
Part 2: Charlottesville teen goes from targeting statue to taking on system
Part 3: Charlottesville pastors see protest as an act of faith
Part 4: Jason Kessler and the alt-right implosion after Charlottesville