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Three and a half years ago, when Nassrene Elmadhun was 8-1/2 months pregnant with her first child, she never dreamed she would ever go out without wearing hijab.

Since her early teens in Colorado, Dr. Elmadhun has worn a headscarf, both as an expression of her traditional Muslim faith and her commitment to its requirements for public modesty. She wore it throughout her years as a doctor in Boston, where she became the chief surgical resident at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, a top trauma center and affiliate of Harvard Medical School.

She was wearing it on April 15, 2013, when her husband texted her. There had been an explosion near him at the finish line of the Boston Marathon. 鈥淚 got my scrubs on and waddled into the hospital and did my best to aid the victims,鈥� says Elmadhun. 鈥淚 still have my fleece with 鈥楤oston Strong.鈥� It鈥檚 something that will be forever burned into my memory.鈥�

That day marked a turning point, however. Though she had been acutely aware of the fact that her headscarf made her stand out, Elmadhun says, she always felt confident and strong wearing hijab, both as a Muslim and as an American who felt, in a deeply personal way, her country鈥檚 promise of liberty and religious freedom 鈥� even after the difficult days following Sept. 11, 2001.

Instead of second glances, she became the object of angry stares. Instead of folks assuming she鈥檚 from another country, or expressing surprise she speaks without an accent, they began to openly associate her with the Tsarnaev brothers, who perpetrated the Boston bombings, or other Muslim extremists.

鈥淥ver the last several years, there鈥檚 been this growing unease, feeling uncomfortable in my own skin,鈥� the surgeon says. 鈥淎nd that is something that鈥檚 new.... I was feeling less and less welcome in my own community, and more and more like there was a target on my back.鈥�

聽And so, like a number of Muslim women this year, Elmadhun made the wrenching personal decision to stop wearing her headscarf.

鈥淵ou feel fear, it鈥檚 human nature,鈥� says Mariana Aguilera, who converted to Islam 10 years ago and now runs The Demureist, a Queens-based website for women of all faiths looking for fashion that embraces a conservative lifestyle, including Muslim women wearing hijab.

鈥淏ut this is more than about our fear,鈥� says Ms. Aguilera, who has decided to keep wearing her headscarf, despite receiving verbal threats this month. 鈥淭here鈥檚 a reason why we have this religious freedom in our country, and if we don鈥檛 do something 鈥� this climate is destroying our values, and that鈥檚 dangerous.鈥�

Indeed, if Muslim women wearing hijab across the country have been feeling especially vulnerable during the current political climate in which few can recall such open hostility, for many of them harassment and violence has also cut to the core of their faith 鈥� a chill on their freedom to remain true to their visible acts of worship and what they see as a theology of modesty.

It鈥檚 a theology that is shared by some Orthodox Jewish women, who often wear wigs to cover their heads in public. In some Orthodox 海角大神, Roman Catholic, and Protestant traditions, too, women are sometimes required to cover their heads in places of worship 鈥� a practice common in the United States just decades ago.

Hiding one's faith

鈥淚t would be a tragedy to us here in the United States if Muslims felt like they had to hide their faith, if Muslim women felt like they had to take off their hijabs, or Sikh men their turbans,聽or anyone who felt they could not identify who they are in public,鈥� says Imam Omar Suleiman, president of the Yaqeen Institute for Islamic Research in Irving, Texas.

鈥淪o I think that it鈥檚 important that we collectively challenge these attacks on people that are identifiably Muslim,鈥� he continues. 鈥淚t鈥檚 important for us to challenge all of that, and to stand tall and firm, because at the end of the day, bigotry is not something that can be reasoned with. And bigotry should not force us to change the way we live our lives.鈥�

Elmadhun and Aguilera point to 2015, when armed protesters were marching in front of mosques and candidate Donald Trump was calling for a ban on all Muslims entering the country. That year, hate crimes against Muslims were becoming more and more common 鈥� up 67 percent, according to the FBI. That also was the year Dzhokhar Tsarnaev was convicted and sentenced to death for the Boston Marathon bombings. During the trial, Elmadhun says she was walking her son in a stroller in Brookline when a man stopped his car, got out, and yelled, 鈥淕o back to your [expletive] country, you [expletive] terrorist!鈥�

Earlier this month, a man at Grand Central Terminal in New York pushed a New York City transit worker down a staircase, yelling 鈥淵ou鈥檙e a terrorist, go back to your own country!鈥� In Brooklyn, another man threatened an off-duty police officer with his pit bull, also telling her and her son to 鈥済o back to your country.鈥�

On the steps of a municipal court in New Jersey, too, a man spit in the face of an advocate with the Muslim American Society鈥檚 Immigrant Justice Center, after she testified in a domestic violence case, according to the Religious News Service.

Self-defense classes

Such incidents led Aguilera, the daughter of a former professional boxer, to organize a number of self-defense classes over the past year for women who wear hijab. She and her colleagues were then invited to speak at another self-defense class offered by New York鈥檚 Muslim Community Network. Posted on Facebook, the nonprofit network's self-defense class got about 2,700 people expressing interest for a class accommodating only 40.

The class includes a time for women to share their experiences and fears and discuss how to respond, both physically and emotionally.

鈥淥ur knowledge about how to manage that fear is very vital,鈥� says Aguilera. 鈥淓ventually these are going to take a toll, because once you start denying who you are, that takes a toll on your personality, and that鈥檚 not healthy.鈥�

The attack Monday on the Christmas market in Berlin that killed 12 brings more unease. Both women say that anytime a Muslim terror attack occurs, they feel they are being held personally responsible for actions occurring hundreds, if not thousands, of miles away 鈥� and which they emphatically deny represents the religion they hold dear.

鈥淟ast year, after the Paris attacks, it was like every time something like that happens, there鈥檚 the aftermath, and people who have nothing to do with it, we have to take the heat for that,鈥� says Aguilera. 鈥淎nd the first people targeted, the most vulnerable, are Muslim women.鈥�

At the same time, however, many advocates have been frustrated by recent fabrications. In November, police discovered a student at the University of Louisiana at Lafayette lied about having her hijab ripped off. And in New York, a young woman who lied to police and the media, alleging that two white Trump supporters attacked her on the subway, was arrested and charged with filing a false report. In the young woman鈥檚 court appearance, she was uncovered, and her head had been shaved.

For Elmadhun, wearing hijab for most of her life was 鈥渁 positive and powerful message, allowing me to recognize that I am not just what I appear to be, but I鈥檓 a human being who should be valued for who I am and what I have to offer.鈥�

And though she does feel relieved in many ways, and feels safer with her son outside, 鈥淚鈥檓 also sad that I was driven to this,鈥� she says. 鈥淚鈥檓 sad about what it means about our religious freedoms in general in our country, I鈥檓 sad that I had to give it up. I was kind of forced into this. It wasn鈥檛 really a choice.鈥�

[Editor's note: This article has been updated to correct the location of the Demureist website in Queens. It also has been changed to clarify who organized the self-defense class at which Aguilera spoke.]