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鈥榃e鈥檙e going to take care of you.鈥 Marine Corps museum offers veterans respite.

A new respite room at the Marine Corps museum lets veterans grapple with wounds of war 鈥 a big step for聽a military branch known for bravado.

By Anna Mulrine Grobe, Staff writer
QUANTICO, Va.

At the National Museum of the Marine Corps, staffers are getting training in how to spot folks who might be feeling post-traumatic stress while visiting the very realistic installations. There is a brief recap of the best 鈥 and worst 鈥 ways to reach out.

鈥淲ho wants to run up and hug them?鈥 asks Michael Murray, a retired Marine running the workshop on this late-summer day. A few hands go up. 鈥淵eah, don鈥檛,鈥 he says. 鈥淪low your roll.鈥澛

Likewise, approaching museum guests from the front is confrontational, from behind a potential ambush. From the side, in their sightline, 鈥渨ith empathy,鈥 he says, is the way to go.

And if they don鈥檛 want help, that鈥檚 OK, too. The key is 鈥済iving ground and then turning away, gently, slowly, warmly,鈥 adds Mr. Murray, founder of the Liberty Organization for Veterans and Emergency Responders. 鈥淭here鈥檚 a possibility that they will come back to you.鈥

The occasion for the training is the opening of what the museum has dubbed its 鈥渞espite room,鈥 designed for guests grappling with wounds of war, or simply in need of a quiet place to reflect on comrades, loved ones, and battles fought long ago.聽

Some find it surprising that it鈥檚 an initiative of the Marine Corps, which takes great satisfaction from its cultivated image as the roughest and toughest of America鈥檚 fighters.

But creating a respite room, with the聽implicit acknowledgment of its need, can help act as a 鈥渟hock absorber鈥 for those who are suffering, says retired Maj. Gen. James Lukeman, president of the Marine Corps Heritage Foundation.

Just having it on-site can also open up a conversation about post-traumatic stress, he notes.

鈥淚 don鈥檛 see it as any kind of admission of weakness. It鈥檚, 鈥楬ey, we鈥檙e leading the way in taking care of our own.鈥

鈥淥nce a Marine, always a Marine. Whether you鈥檝e served four years or 40 years, we love you,鈥 he adds, 鈥渁nd we鈥檙e going to take care of you forever.鈥

Recognizing the need for care

The exhibits here are designed to be immersive 鈥 cooler temperatures to represent mountainous climes, recordings of explosions, and flashing lights help paint a picture of epic fights. During the Korean War Battle of Chosin Reservoir, for example, 15,000 American troops, mostly Marines, were cut off from supply lines, knee-deep in snow, and surrounded by 120,000 Chinese soldiers.

Frostbitten forces batted back grenades with shovels as the bolts on their rifles froze in blizzards. Medics momentarily warmed their hands in their injured comrades鈥 spilled blood.聽

鈥淚鈥檝e been cold ever since,鈥 recalled a Navy doctor, one of the vets who referred to themselves as the Chosin Few.

Still, they kept fighting and executed a remarkable retreat despite heavy losses. 鈥淎ll right, they鈥檙e on our left; they鈥檙e on our right; they鈥檙e in front of us; they鈥檙e behind us 鈥撀爐hey can鈥檛 get away this time,鈥 legendary Marine Lt. Gen. Lewis 鈥淐hesty鈥 Puller is rumored to have remarked.

These stories of characteristic Marine Corps bravado 鈥撀爎elayed with a wink and a smile, but at the heart of the service鈥檚 ethos 鈥撀爉ake the respite room a notable, and necessary, addition to the museum, experts say.

Wounds of war have been alternately acknowledged and shrugged off throughout military history. 鈥淚 started to work on combat trauma in the late 鈥70s, and there was no post-traumatic stress disorder,鈥 says Terence Keane, director of the behavioral science division of the National Center for PTSD, who spoke at the respite room鈥檚 opening.聽

But in the years since, health professionals say there has been growing recognition of the condition, and of the fact that veterans and fighting forces respond well when care is provided.聽鈥淭he progress has been simply astounding,鈥 Dr. Keane says.

The respite room is across the corridor from the museum鈥檚 new Afghanistan and Iraq War permanent exhibits, opening in October.

These installations will bear witness to big Marine Corps battles of recent聽decades 鈥撀燜allujah, Ramadi, the hard exit from Afghanistan. In doing so, they may also stir up emotions and even memories of moral injury聽鈥 which can happen when soldiers see or take part in events that go against their values and moral beliefs 鈥 Mr. Murray says.

Veterans of America鈥檚 most recent wars have not yet had the time to process their experiences that, say, Vietnam-era forces have had, adds David Vickers, a retired Marine and deputy director of the museum.

The hope is that the respite room will be a 鈥渟ubtle but meaningful way鈥 to do that.

A spot for healing

A former restroom transformed by warm wood accents, cozy armchairs, and succulents, the respite room has relaxing spa music designed to soothe and provide some noise-canceling privacy.聽

It also has tissues, a mirror, and a sink, where visitors can splash a little water on their face if the need arises.

It used to have a heavy metal door that slammed shut聽鈥 鈥渘ot the feeling we want to give鈥 to visitors averse to being trapped in, General Lukeman says.聽

Today, that has changed. There鈥檚 a new opaque glass door with an "occupied" sign but no lock, because those had occasionally proved problematic for museum guests in crisis.聽

鈥淪ometimes we had to get security to open the door,鈥 he says.聽

The room is not just for veterans, but for noncombatants, too, caught up in the tragedy of war. Mr. Vickers recalls giving a tour years ago when 鈥渁n older Vietnamese lady came up, just crying her eyes out.鈥

Her dad had been a councilman for the Vietnamese city of Hue, and communist adversaries had put him on a list to be shot. She was hurt and hiding with her family as a little girl when Marines found them and got her care.聽

In one of the museum鈥檚 realistic displays, a child roughly her age at the time was shown injured in the same spot on the body.

鈥淚 wish we would have had a respite room at the time,鈥 Mr. Vickers adds. 鈥淚 would鈥檝e said, 鈥楬ey, come on. Let鈥檚 take a moment.鈥 It was extremely emotional for her.鈥

Often veteran visitors are inspired to share stories that they've never shared before. When this happens, it helps, Mr. Vickers adds, to have a quiet place where they can go and talk and families can record the stories for posterity.

鈥淵ou鈥檙e in the business of capturing 鈥撀爋f bringing forth 鈥撀爉emories,鈥 Martha Corvea, clinical research director with Mr. Murray鈥檚 Liberty Organization, tells the museum staff.聽

鈥淵ou鈥檙e in the right business to take a moment in their lives 鈥撀爐o take a piece of themselves and an experience that they鈥檝e been through 鈥撀燼nd to make it a healing one.鈥