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鈥淢y Harvard classmate Ruth is being appointed to the Supreme Court,鈥� my mom told me casually one spring day in 1993.聽

That鈥檚 when Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg first came into focus for me. She was a trailblazer, like my mom, and they were friends. In the years since that day, I鈥檝e often wondered what it was like to sit shoulder to shoulder with Ms. Ginsburg in the intimidating halls of Harvard Law.

In 1956, Mom was Jinnie Lyn Davis. Jinnie and Ruthie were the only two women in their section that first year of law school. They had come from Detroit and Brooklyn, respectively, both top of their class, both only children, both having lost their mothers a few years before.

I can picture walking across Harvard Yard in the brisk fall air; I can imagine living in a small apartment in Cambridge, Massachusetts, that rattled whenever the Red Line subway passed beneath. I have a harder time feeling what my mom must have felt sitting down next to a male classmate, giving him a friendly 鈥渉ello,鈥� and hearing a gruff 鈥淚鈥檓 married!鈥澛�

I found an unsent letter in my mom鈥檚 belongings, a letter to a friend that first fall. She doesn鈥檛 mention Ruth or any of the nine other female law students among the 鈥渕illions of men.鈥� But it makes sense. The handful of women in her class of 500 were keeping their heads down, trying to prove themselves. And, in my mom鈥檚 case, babysitting on the side.聽

Ruth had a toddler at home and was laser-focused on law. Her husband, Marty, became gravely ill her second year. The couple鈥檚 friends rallied around them. Mom recalled visiting Marty in the hospital, something not lost on Ruth.

After law school, Mom worked for a time on Wall Street, then turned to academia. In 1971, when Ruth persuaded the U.S. Supreme Court to invalidate an Idaho law stating that men should be preferred above women to administer legal estates, Mom gave birth to me. She taught law and chaired the Commission on Women at the University of Michigan, charged with ensuring the equitable status of women there. She co-wrote a legal tome with Harry T. Edwards, later appointed by President Jimmy Carter to the U.S. Court of Appeals for the District of Columbia Circuit, where he joined Judge Ginsburg on the bench.聽

Mom rarely kept up even with her closest friends. It鈥檚 how many glass-
ceiling smashers of her generation operated: full steam ahead, no time for sentiment. She and Ruth kept in touch with knowing nods of solidarity over the years.

I never met Justice Ginsburg. I tagged along when my mom went to an event celebrating 50 years of women at Harvard Law School. I shadowed her as she chatted with former U.S. Attorney General Janet Reno and waved to Justice Ginsburg from afar. Women on panels told how there had been only one bathroom for women on the whole campus. 聽

When 鈥淩BG,鈥� the documentary about Justice Ginsburg, came out in 2018, Mom and I watched the trailer on a tablet in her room at a care facility. She wouldn鈥檛 be with us much longer.

鈥淲as it hard to be one of few women at Harvard?鈥� I asked her then.

鈥淣o,鈥� she said, adding, 鈥淚 was often the only woman in the room.鈥澛�

This summer, in a Slate interview about the 10 other women in her Harvard Law class, Justice Ginsburg singled out Jinnie as her closest classmate. I was so moved that I wrote a letter thanking her for remembering my mom so fondly. I also said how I鈥檇 struggled to sum up Mom鈥檚 extraordinary life in an obituary.

Justice Ginsburg graciously wrote me back in August. Her kind words did what I could not, reflecting the same brevity and brilliance of her legal opinions.

鈥淒ear Kendra,鈥� she wrote. 鈥淵our mother was the only other woman in my [first-year] section. We were good friends in law school, and remained occasionally in touch in the ensuing years. She cared about the right things and was brave as can be.鈥�

I never experienced sitting next to Justice Ginsburg in a lecture hall full of men. But as I read that, it was as though聽I could feel her hand on my shoulder.聽