Father鈥檚 Day gifts: Mom鈥檚 dilemma 鈥� to surprise or get a list
Father's Day gifts are always a Mom's dilemma: Surprise or solicit a list? What does he really want?
Father's Day gifts are always a Mom's dilemma: Surprise or solicit a list? What does he really want?
Every year, just after Mother鈥檚 Day (and I totally base it on just how much of a fuss was made for me) I start thinking about what to do for my husband for Father鈥檚 Day. I鈥檒l be honest and say that I usually come up with some great ideas for gifts but my efforts are always thwarted by him.
Two years ago, I had planned to buy him a nice package at a local barber shop that promises an 鈥渆xclusive gentleman鈥檚 barbering experience.鈥� A straight razor shave, with facial treatment, beard trim (he has a goatee) and a 鈥減recision hair cut.鈥� Sounds nice, right? Instead, a few weeks before he said, 鈥淚 was thinking about getting a thingamabobber (can鈥檛 remember what it was now) for my motorcycle鈥t could be my Father鈥檚 Day gift!鈥�
Sigh.
Last year, since I didn鈥檛 get to treat him to the 鈥渆xclusive gentleman鈥檚 barbering experience鈥� the year before, I had again planned to get him the gift card/package鈥ure enough, he had his own idea. 鈥淚 was wondering if I could get some ice climbing tools as my Father鈥檚 Day gift this year.鈥� Fine.
This year, I was walking around the grilling section of Lowe's and saw听smokers. Knowing he has always wanted one, I planned to pick one out and surprise him for Father鈥檚 Day. I made a mental note and went about my day. I kid you not, later that week, 鈥淗ey, I was thinking about picking up a smoker鈥t can be for Father鈥檚 Day!鈥� At least I was on the right track?
Every year before Christmas, my birthday and Mother鈥檚 Day, he asks me, 鈥淲hat do you want for (insert holiday here)?鈥� If I have an idea, he usually just tells me to go ahead and buy it/order it. The bottom line is that he wants me to get something I really want, that I wouldn鈥檛 normally buy for myself. I feel the same way 鈥� so maybe I should try his approach instead?
How do you shop for Father鈥檚 Day? Do you let them pick out their own gifts or do you try to surprise them?听
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