Anne Tyler鈥檚 trademark wit and empathy shine in 鈥楾hree Days in June鈥
In 鈥淭hree Days in June,鈥 Anne Tyler makes the case for forgiving people鈥檚 shortcomings and cutting each other slack.
In 鈥淭hree Days in June,鈥 Anne Tyler makes the case for forgiving people鈥檚 shortcomings and cutting each other slack.
Anne Tyler鈥檚 25th novel, 鈥淭hree Days in June,鈥 is a valentine to readers. It鈥檚 funny and touching. The story features a divorced couple thrown together by their daughter鈥檚 wedding 鈥 one ex-spouse is incorrigibly spontaneous, the other rigid 鈥 plus an old, overweight rescue cat. This may be Tyler lite, not as complex as 鈥淎 Spool of Blue Thread鈥 or 鈥淔rench Braid,鈥 but there isn鈥檛 a wrong move in it. It鈥檚 the literary equivalent of a box of chocolates with no duds.
The novel, like a well-made play, spans three acts: the day before, the day of, and the day after the wedding of Debbie, Max and Gail Baines鈥 only child. The Baineses have been divorced for 21 years, and we eventually learn why.
The narrator is 61-year-old Gail, whom no one would ever call easygoing. Her day, which will end with the rehearsal dinner, gets off to a bad start when her boss calls her into her office. Marilee is headmistress of a private girls鈥 school in Baltimore where Gail has been assistant head for 11 years. Gail is enraged to learn that she鈥檚 being passed over for promotion when Marilee retires at the end of the year. Marilee tries to reason with her: 鈥淔ace it: this job is a matter of people skills. ... And surely you鈥檒l be the first to admit that social interactions have never been your strong point.鈥
Gail storms off in a huff. She is also miffed about missing her daughter鈥檚 鈥淒ay of Beauty,鈥 set up by the groom鈥檚 mother, even though she had never before heard of such a thing. In fact, the last time Gail went to a hairdresser, she was in high school.
She heads home to stew in the small house she moved into after her divorce. But who should show up but her former husband, over from Delaware鈥檚 Eastern Shore for the weekend鈥檚 nuptial events, lugging a duffel bag and pet carrier. Here鈥檚 how Tyler introduces him, through the eyes of his ex-wife: 鈥淢ax was nowhere near fat, but he was weighty, broad-shouldered; he always gave the impression of taking up more than his share of room, although he was not much taller than I was.鈥
Gail asks why he鈥檚 there. Well, he was supposed to stay at their daughter鈥檚, but it turns out her fianc茅 is 鈥渄eathly allergic鈥 to cats. Why did he bring his cat? Well, she wasn鈥檛 his cat, but her older owner had died, and he鈥檇 picked her up at the Delaware shelter where he volunteers, and he couldn鈥檛 very well leave her alone, could he? In fact, he is hoping that Gail will adopt the cat. Fat chance. 鈥淚 didn鈥檛 even want a houseplant,鈥 Gail explains. 鈥淚 had reached the stage of life when I was done with caretaking.鈥
That鈥檚 the setup, and Tyler clearly has fun with it as she returns to a favorite theme: how a marriage, even a failed one, plays out over decades. She throws in a few twists, including some unfortunate dirt on the groom that nearly derails the wedding. The fact that we pretty much know where this is going doesn鈥檛 matter, because Max and Gail鈥檚 conversations are hilarious, especially when they grope for elusive words.
We learn a lot about these two people in just 176 pages. Both are devoted educators. Neither cares about fancy clothes or food. One lacks boundaries, while the other, by her own admission, 鈥渨as all about boundaries.鈥 One is giving and forgiving, the other judgmental. One is irrepressible, the other bottled up. But years after their split, they still share some inside jokes.
The narrative chronicles Gail鈥檚 gradual recognition that her inflexible standards have impinged on her happiness. At one point she recalls the time Debbie asked why she was an only child. 鈥淚 explained that we couldn鈥檛 afford more children 鈥 not if she wanted the very best college education,鈥 Gail tells us. She reports that young Debbie replied, 鈥淪ee there? You鈥檙e always trying to do things perfect, when I鈥檇 rather do things just so-so but have lots of brothers and sisters.鈥 And what was Gail鈥檚 response? 鈥溾橮erfectly,鈥 I corrected her.鈥
The moral of this story? Cut people some slack and forgive their shortcomings 鈥 and your own, too! Another takeaway: If you鈥檙e looking for a deeply humane writer abounding in wit and wisdom, read Anne Tyler.