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My parents came from Congo about 40 years ago to France, a country they knew nothing about. They came legally when my oldest sister was little. It鈥檚 a blessing; not everybody got the chance to come here that way. Especially around that time, when there was the war. That鈥檚 why they left. They had degrees and diplomas and they wanted the same for us.听 听

When my parents first got here, my dad worked as a dishwasher in a restaurant while he was finishing his master鈥檚 degree. Now he works for the state treasury. My mom works as a nurse鈥檚 assistant in a hospital in Paris. They鈥檝e always had jobs.听Always. It鈥檚 incredible.听

When I look at my parents, hear their stories, and see all they did with so much courage and faith, I see .听

It鈥檚 hard to have faith in difficult times but it鈥檚 especially important in those moments, like now in the pandemic 鈥� and I mean that in both a religious and nonreligious way.听 听

As a family, we always went to church. But my grown siblings and their families, my parents, and I would all do our own thing, going to different churches. Sometimes when my mom worked the night shift at the hospital, my dad would go to church听蹿辞谤听her. That鈥檚 what he said: When he went, it was like they both went.听听听

But this was before the pandemic. Now there are very few church services.

Still, there were some people in our Congolese community in Paris who held private services. A bunch of them got COVID-19 and many died. I remember hearing my parents on the phone in the living room last spring, getting calls about these people they used to know.

That鈥檚 why you just have to pray and do what you can do. In the end, it鈥檚 just you and your faith.听

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Willem Lombe was a top-ranked basketball player in France prior to embarking on a business career, not too long before the pandemic economic effects hit the global economy.

For me, I have had to have deep faith in myself. My drive to succeed has come naturally from my surroundings, but it鈥檚 also something from within. It鈥檚 like a light 鈥� you activate something to make your dreams come true.听

That鈥檚 what my parents saw in my determination as a teenager to go to the United States to try to go pro in basketball. All my siblings are successful in traditional ways 鈥� they have higher degrees, good jobs.听I鈥檝e always walked a different path from the rest of my family. I wasn鈥檛 the best at school, just average. I鈥檓 more life smart.听

My parents let me go, and I spent two years in the U.S. before I decided it was time to move on. It鈥檚 not like I abandoned my dream. I鈥檝e built on it. I wanted more control and to move faster. So I came home, started two businesses, took business classes, and worked as a retail shop manager.听

But the pandemic has really messed me up.听听

I launched an e-commerce site selling self-care products, and that鈥檚 going OK because it鈥檚 online. But my business school classes are almost all online now. The retail shop where I work has been closed half the time.听And my real passion, the 鈥� the talent agency I started with my friend Momar 鈥� is suffering because it鈥檚 really hard to look for talent when there are no basketball games to attend and recording studios are closed. We signed one basketball player to a pro club in Denmark. But for the most part, things are on hold.听

It鈥檚 like as听soon as you start something, then 鈥� boom! 鈥� you get stopped and have to start all over again. Being cut off is the most difficult part. Emotionally, it鈥檚 going to change me. That鈥檚 probably the way it鈥檚 going to hurt me the most.

But, again, it鈥檚 about faith: You think so much is going to happen even if you don鈥檛 see it now.听How do I keep going? I know the Be Great Company is going to be bigger than what we are right now.听听

But the pandemic won鈥檛 be our only hurdle. I do kind of feel like it鈥檚 going to be harder for听us. When people see听our听last names, even though we鈥檙e doing something professional, they just see African names. We used to have our pictures as the profile photo on our company WhatsApp, and then we did a test and changed it to our logo. As soon as we did that, it was completely different. We got more interest, and our conversations with potential clients went further because they weren鈥檛 just thinking about our faces.

That鈥檚 the thing. Momar and I both played high-level basketball, but if you look on the business side of the sports world, you鈥檙e not going to see many people of color. No one is going to say anything explicit, but you can feel the discrimination. You can read between the lines.听 听听

Every time people doubt us, it gives me strength. I just feel sad that racism is still happening.听听

Now I want to focus on helping other people reach their dreams. It鈥檚 a different feeling than achieving my own 鈥� a true happiness.听

Even though this pandemic has been frustrating,听we鈥檙e trying to push some stuff through, do as much as we can do to get the benefits later. I have faith that our time is going to come. But if we stop now, it won鈥檛 go anywhere.听 听

It鈥檚 like fighting a battle. You have two choices: to back down or break through. Whatever happens, I鈥檒l be more proud to succeed after going through something difficult than something easy. That鈥檚 why I鈥檓 still chasing those dreams and why I can never really stop until I reach them.

Read more听here听about Willem in a narrative of 21-year-olds around the globe in the last three months of 2020.听And read other personal essays like Willem鈥檚 here: 21 in 鈥�21.