Stronger together? Yes, Mrs. Clinton, but what does 'together' really mean?
Because I needed props for a theatrical performance, I bought campaign paraphernalia from several of the final candidates. So, snuggled together on the shelf behind my desk, I have a Trump hat, a Hillary T-shirt, a Bernie coffee mug, and a couple of Cruz buttons.
As you can imagine, people are often confused by the collection. They have never seen all four of those items in the same place at the same time. But isn鈥檛 that actually an accurate portrait of what Hillary Clinton鈥檚 slogan, 鈥渟tronger together,鈥� means?
Because of my work, which is building bridges across the partisan divide, I sent my recent book to the Clinton and Trump campaigns. I received responses from both. From the vice-chair of her campaign, Huma Abedin, I received a very courteous note thanking me for supporting her candidate and wishing me much success with the book. And from 鈥淭eam Trump鈥� I received a thank you letter and two bumper stickers that say (guess what?): 鈥淢ake America Great Again!鈥� 聽
But let me set the record straight. When 鈥淭eam Trump鈥� told me they were 鈥渉onored to call me a valuable member of our team and to work with us on rescuing the future of our country,鈥� I realized that they had not taken my letter seriously. I was not volunteering to join their campaign. I was asking them to change the way they were campaigning. I asked them to read my book because I wanted their standard-bearer to unite America, not divide it. Obviously, they are not listening.
And although I strongly prefer Secretary Clinton to Mr. Trump for president, I was not volunteering to work on her campaign, either. I sent my book because I wanted the Clinton campaign to change its tone as well.
Muzzling a Bernie protester
I watched Clinton speak recently to a crowd of 3,000 ardent fans in a packed high school gymnasium in Colorado.聽 Carefully positioned behind Hillary so that the cameras would see her, a lone dissenter held up a cloth banner that read 鈥淪top DNC Corruption鈥� and shouted out the same message denouncing the Democratic National Committee. But Clinton supporters around her held up their blue placards with the words 鈥淪tronger Together鈥� so that she and her protest sign soon became invisible.
It is just one detail on the campaign trail, of course. But it was a telling moment because it reminds us that 鈥渟tronger together鈥� is not just a slogan for getting elected. Just as the words 鈥淢ake America Great Again鈥� cannot be reduced to blindly endorsing an egomaniac, 鈥淪tronger Together鈥� cannot be reduced to rallying around one remarkable woman. Unless it means something more than that, it feels more like George Orwell鈥檚 鈥渘ewspeak鈥� than an uplifting call for unity.
The protester being silenced and surrounded was a Bernie Sanders supporter. She was an older, solitary woman who still harbored a grudge about how her hero from Vermont had been treated by DNC Chairwoman Debbie Wasserman Schultz and her staff. If the next president of the United States cannot include her in the 鈥渟tronger together鈥� tent, then what exactly does 鈥渢ogether鈥� mean?
While the Sanders dissenter was being escorted from the gym, Clinton was repeating one of her favorite lines from her convention speech.聽 鈥淚 want to be the president for all Americans,鈥� she shouted over the raucous applause. 鈥淒emocrats, Republicans, and Independents!鈥澛�
Despite that admirable rhetoric, neither campaign currently embodies the deepest meaning of 鈥渟tronger together.鈥� Before Clinton spoke, for example, no independents or Republicans were invited to speak. To make matters worse, when US Rep. Ed Perlmutter (D) of Colorado opened the event, he welcomed the audience by shouting out a welcome to all the 鈥淐olorado Democrats鈥� present in the room.
Ouch.
Listening to independents聽
Like 4 in 10 Americans, I am an Independent. I know for a fact that there were many of us, as well as Republicans, in the gym. Yet the congressman鈥檚 welcome was only to members of his party. His words contradicted what Clinton was claiming she wanted to be 鈥撀燼 president for 鈥渁ll Americans.鈥� And it undermined the slogan being waved madly in the air by the crowd.
So if 鈥渟tronger together鈥� is going to be the mantra for the Clinton campaign, let鈥檚 take it seriously.
鈥� We need to learn from those who disagree with us, not demonize them.
鈥� We commit ourselves to developing a healthy relationship with our adversaries, not treating them like 鈥渆nemies.鈥�
鈥� We focus on meeting the challenges facing our country (problem-solving) rather than being 鈥渞ight鈥� (position-taking).
鈥� We remember that after campaigning comes governing, and whoever wins needs to be able to lead our country effectively in a troubled world.
In other words, let鈥檚 not just carry the banner. Let鈥檚 behave that way toward others. If we actually want to be 鈥渟tronger together,鈥� let鈥檚 not just shout it; let鈥檚 be 颈迟.听
鈥� Mark Gerzon, president of Mediators Foundation, is the author of "." He writes his Beyond Red & Blue blog exclusively for Politics Voices.
