Why eight Texas friends built their own town
After 20 years of friendship, four couples decided to take it to the next level. They bought some land in Texas, hired an architect, and created their own little town so they could be each others鈥� neighbors.
Popularly known as 鈥淏estie Row,鈥� this communal living plan has been gaining attention, particularly for its uniqueness, as well as its use of 鈥渢iny homes.鈥� As these friends' plan gains popularity on social media, perhaps others in the US will consider the pros and cons of living in close quarters.
Fred Zipp, the former editor of the Austin American-Statesman, said he, his wife Jodi, and three other couples were looking for an escape from the busy life of Austin. After searching local real estate, they found a rocky ridge by the Llano River, about an hour and a half away from Austin, that showed potential.
鈥淲hen we first looked at it, it was not really that inviting,鈥� 鈥淭his is a magical place, but it鈥檚 arid.鈥�
Though it would need plenty of work to become habitable, they purchased the land, and named their project the Llano Exit Strategy. They wanted to create a place where the four couples could live, to reconnect with nature, and recharge from their busy lives. They also wanted to remain environmentally conscious, focusing on minimizing their carbon footprints.
Matt Garcia, an architect and San Antonio native, inspired by the nascent tiny house movement. The buildings' roofs collect rainwater, and each unit contains a double bed, kitchenette, and bathroom. Garcia also built a larger central cabin, about 1,500 square feet, with a large kitchen, and living room for communal living. The buildings are close together, but do not obstruct each other鈥檚 views.
Lucy Cavendish, a writer for the Telegraph, the potential upsides and downsides of communal living. She said that she came from a 鈥渇ree-flowing鈥� childhood, and that there are many valuable things to be gained from living with others. In addition to the social aspect, there is a deeper connection and support group that can develop.
鈥淚t [is] also the ideology behind it: a pulling-together by living together,鈥� 鈥淚t seems to me that now, in 2014, with increasing amounts of people facing an uncertain future, perhaps we need to find a more flexible way to live 鈥� how we are going to live and sustain ourselves in an ever-changing society where relationships come to an end more frequently and we are all living longer.鈥�
Communal living can also present challenges. Therese Charvet, who runs Sacred Groves, an intentional community in Washington state, says that sharing space can be difficult at times. She said challenges include getting enough personal space and time for yourself, distributing chores, dealing with disagreements, and giving each other privacy. It requires that people be flexible, and while this can be difficult, she said the benefits show it is worth it.
鈥淓ach of us has to deal with our personal control issues regularly; community living does not make it easy to be a control freak. It flushes out what you are attached to, that's for sure! But the rewards are worth the effort! These rewards include spiritual and personal development and participating in the evolution of human consciousness toward a more cooperative society. That's big work, work the world really needs right now.鈥�
The New York Times reported that even some strangers have the same idea as the friends from 鈥淏estie Row.鈥� On Craigslist, roommate and housemate advertisements flood the page, looking for people with specific interests and personalities that can live as part of a community rather than simply as someone who shares common space. It鈥檚 the era of the modern commune.
鈥淚t鈥檚 hard to feel supported in a place like New York City, especially without a partner, or consistent person or group that you are able to connect with daily,鈥� . 鈥淎nd I鈥檇 rather have a lot of people to share my day with.鈥�
