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From Peyton Manning raising money for charity via his 鈥�Omaha!鈥� play calls, to Richard Sherman聽snatching personal failure from the jaws of professional victory, the runup to Super Bowl 2014 is an epic parenting opportunity.

Our kids learn a lot from watching sports on TV, especially if we are there beside them to give the color commentary on good and bad behavior exhibited by the players.聽

Sunday was a highlight reel of teachable moments, both during and after the game.

The main message I found in both Mr. Manning's and Mr. Sherman's performances is that our words have the power to build or destroy our image in an instant.

On the positive side, I got to tell my son Quin, 10, that every time聽Manning yelled 鈥淥maha!鈥� at the line of scrimmage, money was donated to his charity, thanks to help from the 聽and other businesses.聽

According to , the聽Denver Broncos' quarterback has made a practice of shouting "Omaha!" before the snap, and this week a group of city officials and business owners in Omaha, Neb., announced they would contribute to Manning's Peyback Foundation every time Manning said the word on Sunday.鈥澛�

While it wasn鈥檛 Manning鈥檚 call to make his shout into a fundraising opportunity, it鈥檚 still a positive and creative way to tie social responsibility into the game. Bravo to all those involved.

During the Broncos' 26-16 win over the New England Patriots聽for the AFC title, Manning said 鈥淥maha鈥� enough times to earn the Peyback Foundation a $24,800 check, CBS reported.

However, Quin, a gamer and math whiz who's a latecomer to football fandom, was baffled. 鈥淥maha?" he asked me. "Why not Minecraft or decagon, octagon, triangle!鈥�

It became a source of laughter as we sat in front of the set and tried to decipher what the quarterback was yelling.

鈥�Drapes!鈥� I said at one point in the game. "I think he said drapes.鈥�

My husband rolled his eyes and said, 鈥�Grapes. He鈥檚 saying聽grapes.鈥�

Turns out hubby was right.

My husband and I watched both the Patriots vs. Broncos and the Seahawks vs. San Francisco 49ers games on Sunday, while Quin drifted between the games and the Minecraft game he was playing a few feet away.

My husband, Robert, has been spending a lot of time lately teaching Quin how to throw a football. Quin has been excluded from casual play before school for his lack of skill.

Quin got a football for Christmas and each and every day you can hear the calls from our backyard, 鈥�10, 42, rhombus, Picachu, hike!鈥�

As we watched Sunday's games, Robert took the opportunity to teach Quin more about the game, while I used it to point out the good and bad behavioral choices made by the players themselves.

Thanks to Seattle Seahawk's cornerback Richard Sherman, I got to tell our son that no matter how great a player you are, if you鈥檙e a bad sport, you鈥檙e a loser.

Sherman made the most dazzling play of the playoffs when he broke up a throw to San Francisco鈥檚 Michael Crabtree in the end zone that linebacker Malcolm Smith then intercepted, essentially ending the game and sealing the Seahawks' 23-17 win.

Just as Sherman 鈥� known for his poor sportsmanship 鈥� had victory in his hands, his bad habits sank him.

First he slapped Mr. Crabtree on the butt, then he made the choke symbol at the opposing team and capped it all with an interview after the game where his mouth just kept running.

"I'm the best corner in the game!" Sherman screamed at Fox reporter Erin Andrews. "When you try me with a sorry receiver like Crabtree, that's what you're going to get. Don't you ever talk about me!"

While Ms. Andrews stood gaping, Sherman continued, "Crabtree! Don't you open your mouth about the best. Or I'm going to shut it for you real quick!"

That was quite the teachable moment.

I reviewed the play with Quin this morning because I have spent a lot of time emphasizing how important it is to be a 鈥済ood loser,鈥� because of his temper fits when he loses at anything.

My friend, chess Grandmaster Susan Polgar (also a huge football fan) is my go-to for coaching kids in any game because of her motto, 鈥淲in with grace. Lose with dignity.鈥�

I reviewed that motto with Quin today, and Ms. Polgar also as a reminder.聽Meanwhile, Quin was worried for Sherman, saying, 鈥淚 bet his mom saw him do all that. I feel sorry for him!鈥�

Maybe the NFL should create helmet visors (perhaps with Google Glass?) that show players an image of their mom or dad superimposed on the field at critical moments.

Until then, we have to rely on old-school parenting to teach our kids that our words聽can either support our goals or undermine them.