Pottering, anyone? Hours at home spark unexpected creativity, connections.
Anna McGovern has been spending a lot of time in her front garden in northeast London, deadheading here, tidying up a weedy corner there. She鈥檚 never been much of a vegetable grower, but with long hours at home during the lockdown, she managed to coax from the earth tomatoes, herbs, squash, and potatoes. One day, a neighbor she sees regularly from a distance passed by and asked for a handful of young butternut squash leaves. She wanted to add them to an African dish she was cooking at home.聽
鈥淚 didn鈥檛 even know you could eat them,鈥� says Ms. McGovern, who has been riding out the pandemic with her husband, two teens, and a preteen at home. That type of chance connection with her Zimbabwean neighbor is one of the unexpected delights that come with what she calls 鈥減ottering,鈥� a British term for meandering seamlessly from one task to another without much thought. 鈥淚t sort of connects you to your community and the people around you 颅鈥� and in a way that you can鈥檛 predict.鈥澛�
Pottering can also balance out the pressure to be productive. As people settle even more deeply into life and work and school at home, a gentle approach can help make the present more bearable and strengthen ties to your immediate surroundings 鈥� even if it is just saying hello from a distance to neighbors on their daily walks, says Ms. McGovern, whose new book, will be published next week.聽
Why We Wrote This
Conducting work and school from home comes with plenty of difficulties, but that confluence has also spurred creativity and connections. And it has led people to find peace in simpler, even slightly unnecessary, pleasures.
A 鈥渞adical reimagining鈥� of work and home
Months ago now, the pandemic forced people around the globe to shelter at home, abruptly ending regular routines. For many, connections to the outside world were reduced to reports of rising fatalities and frantic searches for toilet paper. Then came news of job losses, a sinking economy, and stressed-out parents trying to educate their children.聽
People confined to personal spaces suddenly saw their environs in a new light. DIY sewing projects took on such force that Singer Corp. reports a huge surge in global demand for sewing machines. Next came an army of 鈥減andemic bakers,鈥� clearing yeast from grocery shelves聽by early April. Soon gardening centers were reporting record sales, , and toymakers ran out of 1,000-piece puzzles. By the end of the summer, Fender Guitar reported its in history.
鈥淭here鈥檚 some sort of radical reimagining鈥� happening at home, says Megan Elias, director of the gastronomy program at Boston University and the author of books about the history of food and home economics. 鈥淲hat is work and what is life? And what is the work of life? 鈥� Discovering that you can make things has been really therapeutic for people because it gives you some control.鈥�
Turning from the ugly to create something lovely
Carla Mackey of Bainbridge Island, Washington, says when the quarantine first started, all she could do was feel anxious and worried. 鈥淚 was looking at way too much news,鈥� says Ms. Mackey. But it was her husband, Doug, who had the idea to retrieve the sewing machine from the closet. 鈥淗e started looking at YouTube videos,鈥� Ms. Mackey explains, 鈥渁nd he taught himself how to recover all the seat cushions on his boat using my old sewing machine, which I [didn鈥檛] know how to use.鈥澛�
Once Ms. Mackey鈥檚 husband finished his project, he taught her how to thread the bobbin and work the pedal. First, she made a set of plush monster pillows as a fun surprise for her son and his roommates in New York City. Then she moved on to a pink linen dress for herself with a matching mask.
鈥淭here鈥檚 something just kind of therapeutic about working with your hands because you can鈥檛 let your mind drift off to something else鈥� like the news, says Ms. Mackey, who listens to music while she sews. 鈥淭hat relaxation can hang with you for a while, even after you stop. ... I feel as though there鈥檚 so much in the world that鈥檚 ugly right now. If you can just feel like you鈥檙e making something lovely, that feels good.鈥�
Embracing the family from afar
For others, a silver lining of all this time at home has been stronger family connections. Kathy Thomas, an executive at Half Price Books, a chain of bookstores based in Dallas, was worried about keeping her business afloat when the company furloughed 80% of its staff and faced the very real possibility of going out of business.
鈥淚 personally needed an escape and something fun to do,鈥� says Ms. Thomas. But instead of learning how to play the guitar or buying a new game, she decided to make one. Ms. Thomas organized her 11 nieces and nephews to contribute ideas for Texas-focused bingo boards. One niece drew folk art game pieces featuring cowboy boots, rattlesnakes, and seashells reminiscent of the Texas scenes they were missing, and her daughter-in-law completed the overall design.聽
鈥淚 wanted to get everyone involved. I wanted everyone to feel a part of this鈥� as a way for the family to stay in touch when they couldn鈥檛 get together, says Ms. Thomas. Back at work now, she is hoping to find a distributor to market and sell their game. At the very least, the 32 people in her extended family will get one as a Christmas gift.
But don鈥檛 worry if you run out of home projects or creative ideas for connecting with family and friends. Having a finished product to show for your time isn鈥檛 always necessary. Ms. McGovern, the author, says sometimes it helps to just take your foot off the gas and 鈥撀爌otter. Fill a pepper grinder with peppercorns. Oil a squeaky cabinet hinge. A sequence of tiny household tasks can feel as restorative as stretching out in a yoga pose or checking off an item on your to-do list.
It鈥檚 not so much what you do but the flowing approach without attachment to results that鈥檚 restful for mind and body, notes Ms. McGovern. 鈥淸T]he important thing with pottering is that you derive pleasure from those things 鈥� and they are slightly unnecessary. You don鈥檛 have to do them. But you quite like doing them,鈥� Ms. McGovern says. Doing inconsequential tasks 鈥渃an somehow help you feel a bit peaceful,鈥� she adds.
