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In March, a lawyer named Brandon Boulware delivered that has over 7 million views on Twitter. He wasn鈥檛 in court. He was asking Republicans in the Missouri state legislature not to ban his 12-year-old transgender daughter from playing sports with other girls.聽

Mr. Boulware says he sought to forge a persuasive connection with the lawmakers.

鈥淚鈥檒l treat others how I鈥檇 want them to treat me. And that, of course, is with respect,鈥� says Mr. Boulware in a phone interview. 鈥淣o matter what our preconceived notions are about people or their positions, their attitudes, etc., you have to hear people out, because so many times what we assume is true about someone and their beliefs is not.鈥�

Mr. Boulware鈥檚 approach offers a model for civil discourse 鈥� regardless of the particular issue at hand.聽He led with humility. For years, he admitted to lawmakers, he didn鈥檛 understand transgender issues either. He鈥檇 been slow to embrace his daughter. Once he did, his once miserable kid blossomed into a happy one.

鈥淭he part that resonates with people the most is his willingness to admit that he was not accepting,鈥� says Missouri state Sen. Greg Razer, an openly gay Democrat. 鈥淚 think far too often 鈥� and not just on this issue 鈥� progressives and liberals like to demonize people for not accepting instantly. And we need to give people time.鈥�

The bill in Missouri will be decided in the fall. Mr. Boulware hopes he鈥檚 started a productive conversation by focusing on common values he shares with his adversaries, such as his 海角大神ity.

鈥淭he most critical commandment that Jesus gave to his disciples was, 鈥楲ove one another as I have loved you,鈥欌�� he says. 鈥淚f you remind people of that, the walls that we put up, they start to crumble.鈥�