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A few weeks ago, I was riding shotgun on a lengthy road trip with a friend of mine when we made a stop at Taco Bell. We ordered our food and sat down when I noticed that he had a small mountain of sauce packets on his tray.

I asked him whether his burrito was going to wind up swimming in sauce and he just smiled. 鈥淣ope,鈥� he said, 鈥渢hese are going home with me.鈥�

On our way out, he stuck about twenty five sauce packets into his coat pocket and then, when we were in the car, he tossed them into one of his bags.

When I asked him about it, he says that he takes them home and squeezes them into a hot sauce jar. He says it takes him just a few minutes and he can easily do it while watching something on television.聽

While I suppose that this is a way to ensure 鈥渇ree鈥� hot sauce, something about it just didn鈥檛 feel right to me. After some reflection, I realized that聽I don鈥檛 like it when people abuse things that are clearly presented in a 鈥渢ake what you need鈥� fashion.聽

I feel much the same way if someone tries to sneak food off of a buffet into their purse or something similar.

It just feels wrong to me.

This naturally left me wondering聽what other frugal tactics that might be completely legal and completely accepted by others cross some sort of personal 鈥渓ine鈥� for me.聽I thought of a few.

I don鈥檛 like it when people haggle or call the manager over in department store checkout lines.I鈥檝e seen people do this many times. They鈥檒l flip out because their coupon isn鈥檛 accepted and rather than go over to the customer service desk, they demand that a manager come over right then and there, holding up the line for everyone else.

I don鈥檛 like it when people exploit a flexible return policy just to save a buck.聽All it does is abuse a system that鈥檚 very useful to the actual legitimate customers and, if it鈥檚 abused enough, the system will go away. When a business has great customer service, that doesn鈥檛 mean it鈥檚 time to milk it.

I don鈥檛 like it when people use their employer鈥檚 stuff without permission.聽Where I previously worked, we had blanket permission for 鈥渞easonable鈥� use of the office printer, which meant that we didn鈥檛 need to ask to print off a recipe or something. On the flip side of that, it was pretty obviously inappropriate to print a book. The same thing applies to office supplies (pens, staples, and so on).

I don鈥檛 like it when people grab unused toiletries from the hotel.聽Sure, the stuff placed in your room is fair game, but the housekeeping cart in the hallway is not. Taking those items feels even stranger to me than taking condiment packets at a restaurant.

For many of these things, I think what it comes down to is that聽when someone offers you a little bit of something and you take a聽lot, you鈥檙e crossing a line.聽You start to slide down the slippery slope between smart frugality and minor theft.

Of course,聽everyone sees the world differently.聽What I consider over the top might be normal for someone else. Still, I consider these to be lines that I won鈥檛 cross and I would consider it awkward for someone in my family to cross them, too.

What lines are you uncomfortable crossing?

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