Lessons from my worst money blunders: credit card debt
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Along , I made a great number of mistakes. In this ten part series which runs from July 19 to July 30, I鈥檓 going to focus on ten of my worst mistakes and the difficulties and successes I鈥檝e had in overcoming those mistakes.
I spent more than I earned and made up for the difference with credit cards.
It started in college. The bookstore offered a discount on textbooks if you signed up for a card. I signed up. Later, I used that card to buy video games, starting with .
When I graduated from college, I had a small amount of credit card debt 鈥 nothing unmanageable.
Next came our honeymoon, a year later. I financed most of our honeymoon to London, Edinburgh, and Inverness on a credit card, nearly reaching the credit limit on that card.
When we returned, we furnished our new apartment with a new card. I bought some golf clubs and a bunch of electronics. I began to settle into a routine of buying books every week.
I remember buying a $500 crib for my son on credit in late 2005, going home, and attempting to pay bills. There was less than $500 in my checking account then and I really didn鈥檛 think anything of it until later on. I just kept rolling on.
The end result? By April 2006, I had accumulated around $20,000 in credit card debt. The monthly payments on that debt were actually higher than our rent. When you add car payments and student loan payments on top of that (as well as all the regular bills), we simply did not have enough money to continue to make ends meet.
The tricky part about this mistake is that it was actually just a series of small mistakes that I didn鈥檛 bother to fix. Every time I used credit to pay for something I couldn鈥檛 afford, I could have just said no. Every time I went through with buying something unnecessary, I could have been more frugal in other areas of my life and just paid for that indiscretion.
I didn鈥檛 do either one. Instead, I kept buying things that I couldn鈥檛 really afford. As the debt built up, I found that I could actually afford less and less because of the growing monthly bills, but it didn鈥檛 keep me from racking up more debt.
Why did I buy? There was a mix of things going on. Poor impulse control. Career-related anxieties. Lots of stress. All of these things were solvable on their own and buying things I couldn鈥檛 afford was merely a short-term salve for them. It was easy to forget that pain if I could go home and read a new book or play a new game for a while.
What can you do to avoid this trap?
The solution is simple: never, ever put a balance on a credit card that you can鈥檛 already afford to pay at the end of the month. The moment you do that is the moment you鈥檙e financing a lifestyle that鈥檚 beyond your means.
If you鈥檙e already in a situation where you鈥檝e built up a large deal of consumer debt, start getting rid of it now. Yes, this means you鈥檒l have to live quite a bit below your means for a while. The first place to start is by selling off all of the stuff in your closets and on your shelves that you never look at or use. If you have a CD or a DVD or a video game or another item that you鈥檝e not looked at in more than a year, sell it. Use that money to hammer the debt. When you鈥檝e done that, focus on minimizing your monthly spending 鈥 here are 鈥 and roll the money you鈥檙e saving into a .
Finally, deal with the other problems of your life head-on. Start wiping away the stress and the concerns. Focus on fixing broken relationships and moving on from ones that can鈥檛 be repaired. Deal directly with the things that are bothering you. Seek professional help if you cannot. Eliminate the stress and clear your mind to make better decisions with the resources you have.
Just remember that you can do this 鈥 and don鈥檛 beat yourself up over every mistake. Success isn鈥檛 perfect and it doesn鈥檛 come in an afternoon.
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